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I did all the things. Transitioned. Quit opioids and cigarettes. Went back to school. Got discriminated against and persevered. Quit my last job because of anti LGBT policy and got my dream job.

Oh, and I did all that since 2020.

And it's a nightmare. I'm isolated. No support, and I found out today my coworkers hate me and think I'm trash.

I don't know what to do. Go back to school? It's just going to be more of the same. In the last five years, I achieved more than I ever thought I could. And I've never been more alone or miserable than I am right now.

I'm tired of living in a world that doesn't want me, that I'll never be good enough for. My parents were right, I'm never going to be good enough.

So what's the point?

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[–] LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 9 months ago

I've been sober since 2020 as well. Addiction and recovery are under-discussed aspects of trans experience that can be very isolating. I don't have any clear answers to offer, life is complicated and finding a reason to live it is hard and there's no manual. I just empathize with feeling that way and want you to know you're not alone and it is possible to heal. Be patient with yourself. Focus on your day to day life, on your routine and meeting your own needs. And it is worth it to talk to someone professional. They'll be able to offer a lot more help.