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I think what people are really missing is being able to feel disconnected.
Like it used to be you'd send an email and you'd get a response tomorrow. Because people would go online occasionally.
Now if I'm not responding to a text within a few minutes people get upset. You'll see people answer the phone during a movie to say "hey I'm in a movie I'll call you back"
I'd like to go back to the world of being connected but having a slight delay is ok
Anyone I talk to regularly, would not care if I didn't answer their texts for a few days. My phone is always on vibrate or silent. I engage with people only as much as I want to.
What I'm saying is all that stuff can be changed if you want it to.
But that's okay today? At least in my social circles it is. Just talk about it to whichever friend you have that demands you answer immediately. They are being unreasonable.
I mean my version of "a few minutes" is like an hour. Like it used to be you could respond to a text way later in the day or even the next, and that acceptable amount of time is getting shorter and shorter.