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How the fuck do you make friends? (lemmygrad.ml)

submitted 6 months ago by yewler@lemmygrad.ml to c/comradeship@lemmygrad.ml

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It was so easy to make friends during my undergrad because I lived in the dorms. But I lost half of them due to a messy situation with my ex girlfriend, and the other half doesn't live in town anymore.

Now I'm 22, working on my Master's, and I feel like I have no one.

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[–] xkyfal18@lemmygrad.ml 4 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

CW: mild mention of personality disorder

Pretty much in the same place. Was diagnosed with szpd when I was a kid and ever since I’ve struggled to make friends. However, what I can tell you is: find something you really enjoy doing and meet people who enjoy doing the same. For example, I love working out and programming and that allowed me to foster great friendships.

It wasn’t easy and it won’t be tbh, many come and go, but keep trying! :)