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I never insinuated ownership. That's a jump you made. Kids hold things back for more reasons than the parents. There are plenty of people that do things their parents don't know about for whatever reasons they justify.
That's no reason to force teachers to share everything they know with parents, especially since this is specifically targeted at kids who explore their gender identity, rather than something harmful that might actually justify alerting parents.
You came in here initially defending a legal mandate that targets vulnerable children, and now you're defending yourself as if your original point was that parents should be more involved in their children's lives.
Nobody disagrees with you on the latter, only the original argument you are now trying to deflect from.
@BreakDecks @GladiusB
Everybody needs to drink fresh water every day and mind their own business, and stay in their own lane, including the kids.
Absolutely deranged take in response to this conversation. If anyone needs to mind their own business it's the transphobic ghouls trying to force teachers to out queer kids to their parents.
And maybe you. Absolutely zero self awareness to butt into a conversation to tell everyone else to mind their business, and add nothing else to the conversation but your own nose.
I never disagreed with any mandates or agreed with them in any shape or fashion. I disagreed with blaming parents for their kids not wanting to tell the parents.
So all of the parents who emotionally and physically abuse their their queer children are faultless, and abused children should unconditionally trust their abusers because they're their parents and must know what's best?
And now you've spent the last 8 hours angrily arguing this in a thread about queerphobic educational mandates, because you have absolutely no opinion about the mandares of which we are all discussing?
C'mon man... You don't have to die on this very stupid hill. You don't even have to admit that you are wrong. You can just stop digging this hole.
I'm not defending anyone that abused anyone. Read the fucking writing. I'm saying that MOST parents aren't given a chance to even know about every kid. Kids build up these gigantic pillars of fear and don't even give their parents a chance to respond.
Am I talking about the dicks that bully their kids? No. I'm talking about every day parents that love their kids and are kept out of the dark for the kid's choice. It happens all the time. Then they grow up and realize all their fears were their own doing.
I have seen it soooooooo many times.
Are there shitty parents that are crappy? Yes. But that is not who I was talking about at all. Read what the fuck I wrote.
Going out on limb here, but you sound like you're venting about your relationship with your own kids. Given your belief that kids don't deserve privacy, such a lack of trust in you would be entirely deserved.
If this isn't the situation, it will be someday, if you ever raise a kid without dropping the helicopter parent routine.