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submitted 7 months ago by callmepk@lemmy.world to c/me_irl@lemmy.world

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[+] Sorgan71@lemmy.world -7 points 7 months ago (2 children)

Bro if you're getting out of your comfort zone why should the zone be comfortable

[–] OftenWrong@startrek.website 4 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (2 children)

Why wouldn't you want everyone around you to be at least moderately comfortable? Is it really that hard to just shut up and let someone be for a few minutes? I don't mind socializing but sometimes I just wanna wander off on my own for a few minutes to recharge. Is that really so much to ask? Then people take it personally when I politely ask them to give me a few minutes as if I'm being rude.

[–] Sorgan71@lemmy.world 1 points 7 months ago

Because comfort is not a concern when getting out of your comfort zone

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 1 points 7 months ago

Why wouldn’t you want everyone around you to be at least moderately comfortable?

Depends on the circumstance.

I'll happily put a vegan option on the menu, but I wouldn't turn down music at a club because complained it was too loud.

[–] NoSpiritAnimal@lemmy.world 3 points 7 months ago

They're saying why are they the only ones getting dragged out of the comfort zone.