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I have taught myself to do it relatively well, although it still feels like their is electricity in the back of my brain. I can think through it but it's hard. I also do it intermittently, I don't make myself hold it unless for very serious conversations. I also tend to look at one eye at a time, but no one has called me out on it yet.
... are you not supposed to look at one eye at a time?
To me, depends at how far I am from them. up close, I can only look at one eye at a time. Which eye I choose depends on how much I want to engage. If I want all in, I'm going with the eye they're using to look at my eye. If I want a little separation, then I will look at the other. Maybe from about 25 feet (7.5 m), I can focus on both eyes at the same time.
I don't think so. I think you're supposed to look at both somehow. I haven't got this completely figured out.