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What words, phrases or signs do you use and how do you get your partner's attention?

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[โ€“] putoelquelolea@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 year ago (6 children)

It's rude for spouses to have a private conversation? Would whispering be better? Would it be better if they hid in a cupboard where no one could see them?

[โ€“] Kepabar@startrek.website 20 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Yes, it's generally considered rude to switch languages specifically to hide your conversation.

It's because most will assume you are doing it to talk shit.

[โ€“] Subverb@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Which they are.

Agree, it's rude af.

[โ€“] monk@lemmy.unboiled.info 1 points 5 months ago

Tell me you're insecure without saying you're insecure.

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