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What's the hardest lesson you've learned? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)

submitted 5 months ago by Samvega@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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Interpret 'hardest' however suits you. Look forward to your answers!

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[–] unn@lemmy.ca 3 points 5 months ago

If your happiness comes first then it is because you are special.

I was going to write that, but left it out to not sound pretentious. Because I had no self love, I used to consider people who I loved special, but they ended up being incredible mean and detrimental to me. Even Christian Divine figures have disappointed me. So I learned the hard way the only special being to me should be myself.