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When you vet someone for whether you can be close friends with them, what's a seemingly unimpactful characteristic about someone that would instantly rule them out as a potential close friend for you? (lemm.ee)

submitted 1 year ago by shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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[–] ComradeChairmanKGB@lemmygrad.ml 12 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Yes everyone does it naturally and mostly subconsciously over time as they get to know people. You've got to be a real psycho to be running through a checklist you've crowd sourced online. Wtf is this thread. Ugh reddit refugees lmao.

[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 8 points 1 year ago

I personally doubt OP is going to actually use the answers like that.

[–] Fuckass@hexbear.net 2 points 1 year ago

Well, many people have hard line stances for some things so they’re instantly aware of someone crossed the line. I’m acquaintances with some people who I would normally think are ghouls because if we avoid certain topics, we’re fine.