this post was submitted on 18 Jun 2024
238 points (98.8% liked)

Technology

59422 readers
2866 users here now

This is a most excellent place for technology news and articles.


Our Rules


  1. Follow the lemmy.world rules.
  2. Only tech related content.
  3. Be excellent to each another!
  4. Mod approved content bots can post up to 10 articles per day.
  5. Threads asking for personal tech support may be deleted.
  6. Politics threads may be removed.
  7. No memes allowed as posts, OK to post as comments.
  8. Only approved bots from the list below, to ask if your bot can be added please contact us.
  9. Check for duplicates before posting, duplicates may be removed

Approved Bots


founded 1 year ago
MODERATORS
you are viewing a single comment's thread
view the rest of the comments
[–] filister@lemmy.world 23 points 5 months ago (2 children)

My rent costs me pretty much how much would it cost me to raise two kids. And wondering why people don't raise kids. Because life and rent became so expensive, it's literally impossible to rent and raise more than two kids on two average incomes.

[–] altec@midwest.social 12 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I can afford kids, but fuck making them live through this climate collapse we've created. I'll adopt if I really want a kid.

[–] rottingleaf@lemmy.zip -1 points 5 months ago (1 children)

but fuck making them live through this climate collapse we’ve created

Even if that's close enough to make them live through it - that's how you make a decision of not having kids when somebody thinking "climate collapse is cool, let's do it" makes a decision to have kids, naturally with such upbringing.

[–] altec@midwest.social 11 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

I'm not having children to compete with other people. I don't want to be responsible for bringing a life into this world only to suffer as crops fail and wars for resources rage.

In America, school teachers are paid shit wages, and guns are everywhere. Quality of life is decreasing as wages stagnate, the rich get richer, and democracy slowly turns into fascism. The oceans are getting hot enough to kill the fish, and they keep getting hotter. Microplastics are literally everywhere, and we're still learning how bad that is.

We've already passed the Paris Climate Accord global warming limit, and the yearly global greenhouse gas emissions are still increasing to record levels. 1.5C of warming was supposed to be the doomsday limit, but now they say 2C isn't that bad? The moving target for the global warming limit is a joke, and the poor and impoverished are the punchline.

Sure, I get the urge to have children, but I've already gone through the 7 stages of grief myself about it.

[–] rottingleaf@lemmy.zip -5 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Since bronze age and till now most humans having children knew they would suffer.

Having a life is better than not existing in the first place.

And don't worry, it's a self-regulating system and you are on the opposite end of humanity in the sense of being the material for that regulation.

[–] demonsword@lemmy.world 6 points 5 months ago (2 children)

Having a life is better than not existing in the first place

I guess that anyone that has an opinion in this matter is highly biased

[–] njm1314@lemmy.world 4 points 5 months ago

Nah I exist and I really do have the opposite opinion.

[–] rottingleaf@lemmy.zip -1 points 5 months ago (1 children)

True. One doesn't have to explain their choice in having children to others anyway.

It just feels strange, to have an opportunity to give a child a better life than most of the people on the globe can, to want children, and to choose against.

[–] demonsword@lemmy.world 5 points 5 months ago

True. One doesn’t have to explain their choice in having children to others anyway.

I don't think I'd be a good parent so I decided to not have children. I'm in my forties so this is unlikely to change

It just feels strange, to have an opportunity to give a child a better life than most of the people on the globe can, to want children, and to choose against.

The future is bound to suck a lot, so I can understand people who think like that

[–] ryannathans@aussie.zone 2 points 5 months ago

Based and true