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How do you stop feeling the desire to be in a relationship? (lemm.ee)

submitted 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) by Kimdracula@lemm.ee to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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I'm almost 35 and realised is not going to happen. I will never become adult or reliable enough for any woman to take a glance at me. I'll never fall in love or experience sex.

There must be a way to stop this feeling. People say hobbies but honestly I don't like anything or i give up on everything. I don't wanna try new things anymore.

Edit: some of you are really nice. But to those of you who keep insulting just because my post is a downer they I'll just block you. Why don't just ignore my post instead of leaving nasty comments?

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[–] bionicjoey@lemmy.ca 2 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children)

You're not what?

Edit: they deleted it, but OP's reply was just "I'm not unfortunately". Don't see how that's a coherent reply to my comment.

[–] otp@sh.itjust.works 3 points 4 months ago

Unfortunately.

[–] user224@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 4 months ago (1 children)

if you are willing to put work into yourself.

Is my guess.

[–] bionicjoey@lemmy.ca 9 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

It doesn't matter. I just realized that OP is that same asshole who has been making posts like this one for weeks and belligerently arguing with anyone who gives him good advice. The account creation date for the OP lines up perfectly with the last comment made by that other account ( @fookreddit69@lemm.ee ) and they share the same personal details (lives in Italy with mom, is 35, unemployed)