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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!

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[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 18 points 4 months ago (4 children)

Wonder if she’ll ever have breakthrough about why she uses filters constantly and lies about it? I’m just waiting for the day she has a big cry about that because she can’t keep up her fraud ways anymore.

[–] Whaaambulence@lemmy.ca 16 points 4 months ago (2 children)

mental health posts are always conveniently timed with being caught. Fupa yesterday, mental health today. The predictableness these days is beyond embarrassing for her

[–] Rarepotato@lemmy.ca 17 points 4 months ago

I came here to post this same pic. She weaponizes mental health every time she gets called out for something. I was waiting for the post. She's so predictable.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 12 points 4 months ago

You’re so right! She really has it down to a science. I’m so sick of her.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 15 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Usually she goes on to claim how exhausting her sessions are! Not today though, she has press on nails to shill. Why does she bother with these posts, it’s not like she’s ever going to divulge why she feels the need for therapy.

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 12 points 4 months ago (2 children)

Seriously, I’d love to know why she feels she needs therapy. Is she even honest with her therapist? Because I highly doubt it. Everything that is wrong with her stems from having to keep up an act every day of her life, I’d need therapy too if I had to go through every day being a liar. But I bet she lies to her therapist too.

[–] FraudulentFruit1@lemmy.ca 12 points 4 months ago

I forgot at one point she was claiming PTSD. Seriously though she can f-off with the performative bs.

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 11 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children)

I’m sure she isn’t honest with her therapist so she’s never going to get any real breakthroughs. I’m completely hypothesizing here but I can see it’s all about how other people make her feel and things that have been done to her - that kind of thing. I can’t imagine there’s any real, deep work being done.

[–] Rarepotato@lemmy.ca 8 points 4 months ago

I don’t even believe she sees a therapist. I bet she takes some online course or listens to a prerecorded “session”

[–] crownofgold6@lemmy.ca 6 points 4 months ago

I agree so much! I bet she plays the victim the entire therapy session.

[–] bellaportuguesexo@lemmy.ca 12 points 4 months ago

Her take accountability? Never! I wouldn’t hold my breath on her ever coming clean.

[–] MoonChild@lemmy.ca 10 points 4 months ago

It’s weird that I just mentioned we hadn’t heard anything about therapy for more than a month!