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i’m doing it because I want to make the fediverse more friendly place, in hopes of making it more welcoming for new users, and the nicer place in general. But I wonder how much is just less bots.

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[–] salient_one@lemmy.villa-straylight.social 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I think the exodus from Reddit is also a factor here. People are united in the cause of finding a new home.

[–] Clbull@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago

It's almost like all the nice people with actual moral compasses have ditched Reddit for the likes of Lemmy, Tildes and Kbin. Reddit has been left to become a toxic shitshow.

[–] TrismegistusMx@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Have you talked to the Atheists on here? Cantankerous bunch. They've been in their little bubble for so long they get triggered by the slightest perceived critique of capitalist materialism.

[–] Ghostalmedia@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago (13 children)

Wait. What does atheism have to do with capitalist materialism?

How does my belief, or non belief, in god affect my lust for a Playstation 5.

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[–] MrMonkey@lemm.ee 9 points 1 year ago (18 children)

No, not really. Have a "wrong" opinion and see how it goes.

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[–] Thrillhouse@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I think maybe as well it always became really heated with the Reddit bots when you would express a differing opinion to theirs. There were many times bots would pick a fight and then argue with you like it was their job (because it was). This feels more chill like the early days of Reddit and I hope it stays that way.

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[–] Anon819450514@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 year ago

There is also no karma whore. So even if you say something offending to some, who cares?

[–] randon31415@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago (5 children)

It is hit or miss. I just got into a fight with a MAGA troll claiming that wikipedia vote totals are completely made up. I thought I wouldn't have to deal with stupidity like that on lemmy.

[–] WhiskyTangoFoxtrot@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

The Internet is the Internet. As the Fediverse grows, it'll encounter all the same problems that the other social media platforms do, except one: People won't be locked into a single website controlled by a monolithic corporation. That's a big enough improvement in my books.

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[–] Nacktmull@feddit.de 9 points 1 year ago

I also have that perception. When people disagree, instead of becoming toxic, they stay oddly cool and nice to each other here. Let´s hope this lasts when more and more reddit users join ....

[–] Shortbus@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Have an upvote my fellow fedinaut

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[–] MedicPigBabySaver@lemm.ee 9 points 1 year ago

Hogwash you son of a bitch! Now, take my upvote.

[–] PlasmaRiver@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago

Im still finding it a strange world to be part of

[–] fugepe@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

more genous with upvotes than reddit.

Why would you care about fake points, lmao

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[–] volrath@vdcw.social 8 points 1 year ago
[–] neocamel@lemmy.studio 8 points 1 year ago

I disagree, but I uovoted you anyway. ;-)

[–] GustavoM@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (5 children)

Then you haven't posted enough and/or love the "herd mentality" -- it's my 1 month in and I already been massively downvoted twice by randoms with multiple accounts.

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[–] BromSwolligans@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I still type shitty things. But then I stop and rephrase in a more human way.

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[–] EtzBetz@feddit.de 7 points 1 year ago

I think this is normal with a smaller community. Also we are the ones that care more about a healthy community. The bigger a community gets, the more dickheads will exist in it.

[–] Arotrios@kbin.social 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Mods are certainly nicer, that's for sure, and thus far, except in in ugly instances, everyone here has been intelligent and thoughtful, even in disagreement.

I think that federation here really helps - seems like the toxicity seems naturally get siloed as instances defederate from bad actors and users are blocked, and it really dilutes the impact a power-tripping mod can have on content, as it's far to easy to find another relevant community or instance that will accept your post.

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[–] MadeFreshDaily@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 year ago

Reddit is a cesspit, so glad I discovered the fediverse. This guys skits sums up Reddit perfectly.

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZT8RGqrqv/

Agreed! Found some bad apples here and there lately, but in general people are nicer and more civil.

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