this post was submitted on 15 Aug 2023
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Don’t You Know Who I Am?

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[–] lightsecond@literature.cafe 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Good on her for owning upto it and him for not making it awkward.

[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 2 points 1 year ago

🦀🦀🦀🦀

[–] STUPIDVIPGUY@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 year ago

yeah kind of a dumb response to begin with so it's good she realized

[–] irmoz@reddthat.com 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

The concept of character arcs is also pretty well known, so it's not exactly an intellectual flex

[–] li10@feddit.uk 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I still think her response is a bit shitty…

Why do you need to be “qualified” to talk about a character arc??

Like, it’s not some obscure term that only film critics know or something only they get to have an opinion on… Seems like some unnecessary gatekeeping.

[–] Stalinwolf@lemmy.ca 0 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

She may just be pointing out how buzzwords seem to explode throughout the internet, like when someone mentioned boiling a frog in a pot and now someone shares that exact metaphor in every 1 in 4 threads.

[–] Default_Defect@midwest.social 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] HughJanus@lemmy.ml 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] Default_Defect@midwest.social 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

A frog will jump out of a pot of water before its hot enough to kill it.

[–] HughJanus@lemmy.ml 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I think maybe you're not understanding the concept of a metaphor.

[–] Default_Defect@midwest.social 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I understand metaphors just fine.

"Lightning never strikes the same place twice" is a metaphor that people think is true too, doesn't mean we can't use it.

[–] HughJanus@lemmy.ml 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

But you're the one saying we can't use it...?

[–] Default_Defect@midwest.social 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Show me where I said we can't use it.

"And it isn't even true." does not mean "stop using that metaphor"

[–] HughJanus@lemmy.ml 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What exactly does it mean then?

[–] Default_Defect@midwest.social 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That it isn't literally fucking true.

[–] HughJanus@lemmy.ml -1 points 1 year ago

So then we're back to the original reply that you don't understand metaphors. No one thinks it's literally fucking true. That's how metaphors work.

[–] echodot@feddit.uk 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Oh yeah, I know someone who named her kid Khaleesi. Oh dear.

But let's be honest if you're going to call your kid Khaleesi that kid was always going to grow to be a stripper. Poor kid. She is going to be in high school before she learns how to lean to spell it.

[–] EndOfLine@lemm.ee 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Just to be nit picky: Khaleesi was a title, like queen or chieftess. The character was named Daenerys Targaryen. So they would technically have not named their child after a character.

[–] Klear@sh.itjust.works 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] EndOfLine@lemm.ee 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

< puts on geek hat and glasses >

Daenerys met several former khaleesi's when she was brought before the Doth Khaleen. While at this point, their husbands had been killed and they had given up the title of Khaleesi and adopted the new title of Khaleen, they were at one point each a khaleesi.

The only one I can remember by name is, Ornela, the one that befriended Daenerys.

< removes geek hat and glasses >

[–] Klear@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago

Ha, I have a strategy for this case:

Ahem.

NEEEERD!