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[–] asteriskeverything@lemmy.world 150 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] eestileib@sh.itjust.works 69 points 1 year ago (2 children)

It's funny I've had interactions on dating sites that would be unspeakably vulgar in person but somehow come across as gallant in that context.

[–] asteriskeverything@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Honestly it's the rare exchanges like this that make me wish I was on the dating scene in this era cuz damn that was not a thing in my day. But the rest of it sucks so much, no matter the era lol

[–] eestileib@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The getting laid part is the best part imo, but you have to want it badly enough to wade through some shit.

Oh. I'm good. Lol

[–] Draegur@lemm.ee 122 points 1 year ago (1 children)

at least they aren't discriminatory...?

[–] norbert@kbin.social 183 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Yeah this might be a green flag. Person is being upfront about their needs, they're trying to fuck. It's fine if that's not what you're looking for but if you are, it's fine (imo) to be completely upfront about it.

[–] littlecolt@lemm.ee 37 points 1 year ago

Homeboy is tryna fuck and is communicating clearly and asking for interest/consent. Vulgar? Sure, but still a class act. I hope he got to hit it.

[–] ShaunaTheDead@kbin.social 28 points 1 year ago

Yesss! Oh my god, just be up front about what you want! I hate when people lie about their intentions on dating sites.

[–] IntrepidIceIgloo@lemmy.world 69 points 1 year ago (2 children)

That would work with me lol

[–] praise_idleness@sh.itjust.works 59 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The word bussy was right there. 0 for effort

[–] Zoboomafoo@lemmy.world 69 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Only boys have bussies, not trans women

[–] Holzkohlen@feddit.de 26 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Is it short for boy pussy or butt pussy?

[–] Shea@lemmy.world 47 points 1 year ago (2 children)

generally it means boi pussy but i like where your head is at

[–] Slovene@feddit.nl 9 points 1 year ago

Which head?

i thought the b was for bottom?

[–] veroxii@lemmy.world 18 points 1 year ago

Always thought it was "back pussy". Completely gender neutral.

[–] praise_idleness@sh.itjust.works 17 points 1 year ago

butt pussy?

That's what I thought damn

It’s short for boy pussy, but the term’s original usage was in the gay male community and referred to the anus. It has also been co-opted for use by the transmasculine community. Though, in my personal experience as a trans femme top, I’ve met boys that call their anus that, and use ‘front hole’, which is off limits. And I’ve met boys that call their vagina that.

[–] bbpolterGAYst@lemmy.blahaj.zone 56 points 1 year ago

aww, this is what true allyship looks like 😊 😊 😊

[–] Jolteon@lemmy.zip 31 points 1 year ago

Hey, clear expectations were set from the very beginning.

[–] ThatFembyWho@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Complete lack of imagination. Just want I want, a brainless meatsack on top of me for 5 minutes.

Is this the tinder experience? Might be looking at trans friendly dating apps soon.

[–] Agent641@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Well, give us more to work with, then! What exactly are you tryna get pounded?

First misstep... I generally do the pounding, friend :* just cuz I'm a girl doesnt mean I'm a bottom xD

Unless you're offering to do housework for me. In that case I suppose a number of things could benefit from a good pounding.

When 90% of the people you talk to are going to ignore or ghost you, you shouldn't put much effort into trying to impress someone who is, for all intent and purposes, a photo with a name.

[–] Kit@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 year ago

I had good luck with a site called Taimi. Not sure if it's still around but it was much better for dating versus the hookup culture of Tinder. I met my partner there and we've been together for years.

[–] gon@lemm.ee 8 points 1 year ago

Have no words

[–] Franzia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 year ago

Me and who?