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Even better if you can provide your own understanding of its meaning.

Mine would be :

"Nothing kills a man as much as being forced to represent a country" (and err considering the context, I must stress it has nothing to do with the current US shitshow), by a WW1 soldier, illustrator and writer named Jacques Vaché.

For me it just means being forced into representing a group (national, of course, but maybe also social, racial, sexual, professional, any kind of group) or defining one's identity only by reference to a group is to be avoided at all costs.

Note : Its not the same, imho, as engaging in a collective struggle or defense against a common oppression.

How about you?

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[–] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

"Everything you want in life has teeth", by the writer Jonathan Carroll. I believe it means that everything you pursue will hurt you in some way.

[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Sadly, pretty much all struggles against a common oppressor take on heavy identity characteristics and have the accompanying problems. It's the main reason they don't work immediately.

Anyway, probably "What I cannot build, I don't understand", by Richard Feynman (although the exact wording varies by source). If I write a book that's probably going to take up the first page.

[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 1 month ago

Those who don't know history are doomed to repeat it. Those who know history are doomed to know it's repeating.

It's the second part that makes this otherwise well know phrase hit much closer to home for me.

[–] big_salad@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

Golf: A nice walk, ruined.

[–] VeryVito@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 month ago

It’s a poem by Stephen Crane, but so short I’m often reminded of it in full:

A man said to the universe:

”Sir, I exist!”

“However,” replied the universe,

“The fact has not created in me

A sense of obligation.”

It sounds nihilistic, but it’s somehow calming whenever I start to feel like I’ve been wronged or I’m owed a break of some sort.

[–] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 month ago (5 children)

a collective struggle or defense against a common oppression.

What do you think WW1 was about?

[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Aristocrats throwing peasants at each other.

Maybe you're thinking of WW2.

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[–] Vytle@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I got two. First is just Hanlon's razor; "Never attribute to malice what can be attributed to incompetence"

The second one is a bit of a strange pick; its "But there's no sense crying over every mistake; You just keep on trying till you run out of cake."

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[–] CPMSP@midwest.social 2 points 1 month ago

Fortune favors the bold.

It was written in a graduation card from my grandfather.

[–] Robust_Mirror@aussie.zone 2 points 1 month ago

"It is not that we have a short time to live, but that we waste a lot of it." -Seneca

When we complain about not having enough time, we think of ourselves as being passively allocated an insufficient resource. But maybe the problem isn't that life is too short, but that we waste much of the time we're given.

I think this is relevant in these modern times more than ever. How much of our time goes to mindless scrolling, worrying about things beyond our control, or pursuing goals that don't truly align with our values? We should be thinking about the difference between being busy and spending time meaningfully.

And that's not to say all time spent should be something "productive". Leisure time can be meaningful. But I think it's worth even thinking about that. Are you truly happy with how you choose to spend your leisure time when you watch 100 short videos you probably won't even remember? Or when you sit there getting angry or depressed about article after article after article? I think it's worth thinking about.

[–] Goldholz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 month ago (2 children)

"Pride is not the opposite of shame, but its source" - Iroh

And

"Curiously enough, the only thing that went through the mind of the bowl of petunias as it fell was Oh no, not again. Many people have speculated that if we knew exactly why the bowl of petunias had thought that we would know a lot more about the nature of the universe than we do now." - Hitchhikers Guide

Dont think about things too much. Just accept it, and change accordingly with a response

[–] needthosepylons@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

Came for the second, stayed for the first

[–] needthosepylons@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Also from H2G2, behold the majestic : " -Perhaps I'm old and tired, but I think that the chances of finding out what's actually going on are so absurdly remote that the only thing to do is to say, "Hang the sense of it," and keep yourself busy. I'd far rather be happy than right any day.

-And are you?

-Ah. No. Well that's where it all falls down, of course "

I like it even better in the movie, Bill Nighy embodies this sentence perfectly.

[–] K0W4LSK1@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

"Do to others as you want done too you" Wouldnt say its under rated just not actually followed by the masses that preach it but i prefer to say "dont treat people how you wouldnt want to be treated"

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[–] absGeekNZ@lemmy.nz 1 points 1 month ago

Work smarter, not harder.

Scrooge Mc Duck
[–] krinks73@lemm.ee 1 points 1 month ago

"The stone cannot know why the chisel cleaves it. The iron cannot know why the fire scorches it. When thy life is cleft and scorched; when death and sadness leap at thee, beat not thy breast and curse thy evil fate. But thank The Builder for the trials which shape thee."

From Thief: The Dark Project

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