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Well I’m queer, and apparently the ceo is MAGAt

[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 week ago

I like Lemmy more.

[–] mrmule@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago

Left reddit when Sync stopped working. Been here ever since and I actually prefer it here anyway.

Reddit was and probably still is an echo chamber of bots and catch phrases. There were a few useful gems of information when you googled something, but now most of that content has become unreliable due to some people (like me) who salted and later deleted their comments before leaving.

Also Spez was a dick 🤷‍♂️

[–] technohippie@slrpnk.net 7 points 1 week ago

I liked Reddit but I couldn't ignore what's happening there anymore. Anyway Lemmy is cool too, not missing it that much.

[–] JohnDClay@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'm just stubborn, left during the blackout and didn't want to go back.

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[–] dan69@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Not explicitly answering ops q; what brought me here was a friend who introduced the Lemmy/fediverse. And this is (imo) a better alt to Reddit. It is filled with company accounts, spammers, banned or discontinued sub-reddits..

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[–] davel@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 week ago

Reddit didn’t permanently ban me, I permanently banned it. It started with Reddit killing third-party apps, but nowadays Reddit is a Nazi bar, so there’s no going back.

[–] kerrigan778@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 week ago

No, I had a reddit account in good standing that was around a decade old, I switched to Lemmy when it became clear that Reddit was being run by the regressive conservative tech world, eventually I also deleted my reddit account as part of a purge of my online identity.

[–] Tungsten5@lemm.ee 7 points 1 week ago

I got a perma ban from reddit. Ive said this in other comments but I’ll add it here: A mod locked a post I was looking at and said something about how the post wasn’t good (I can’t remember exactly what the mod said). I responded by telling to the mod “get lost”. I got perma banned from that subreddit. Then like 5 months later I smoked some weed and, for whatever reason, felt the need to message the mod and say “spank spank spank. Thats the sound I make as I spank you. Yes yes yes. Thats the sound you make as I spank you”. Thats when I got a phat perma ban from the admins. I made another reddit account on a vpn. All seemed well until I launched reddit with the vpn off by accident. My new account was banned shortly after this. Either way, after the first ban I was looking at alternatives. I found the lemmsters. I still have the reddit app with my perma banned account. I can browse reddit all I want but I don’t use it for anything other than porn or when I google something and a reddit link pops up where my question is being answered. There are things I miss about reddit. Primarily I miss the large chess community there. It is far more developed than the chess community on lemmy. I wish I could get the chess community going here. I don’t really miss reddit for anything else. This is evident by the fact that I could’ve been on reddit right now, but instead I prefer to browse lemmy. I really like the fediverse idea. It interests me greatly and I hope to see it grow! One thing that is exciting that I missed out on with reddit is being there from the beginning. I know lemmy/fediverse is newer so I am happy to join during the more early stages and see how the fediverse as a whole grows.

[–] Captain_Patchy@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago

I got a bullshit warning about harassment on a 5 day old post that said "Don't be a jerk to people you don't know and you won't have that problem" Appealed it and got told it it was harassment.
Fuck reddit.
I'm slowly going through my posting history and editing anything useful to the AI training to be nonsense.

[–] Shootingstarrz17@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago

I left Reddit after they bent the knee to M*sk.

[–] overload@sopuli.xyz 7 points 1 week ago

The API killing my preferred third party app did it for me. And the blatant astroturfing/karma farming also meant that it wasn't a good experience on there.

I will say though, the Reddit hivemind effect is still present on Lemmy. Though I think there's less tepid posts to raise account karma here.

[–] essell@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago

I am the one who bans

[–] UnsavoryMollusk@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago

I just like Lemmy more

[–] EpeeGnome@lemm.ee 7 points 1 week ago

Found Lemmy during the API protest and ditched reddit. I've been meaning to go back to reddit and get banned over the whole crazy censorship thing, but haven't gotten around to it yet.

[–] grte@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 week ago

Not banned. I'm being the change I want to see.

[–] early_riser@lemmy.radio 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I was on Reddit from mid 2012 to mid 2023, across a few accounts and with a hiatus of a few months here and there. I had been passively looking at less centralized forms of personal interaction on the web, trying to find traditional forums to replace the subs I frequented. Like a lot of people here, the API issues and the news of Reddit courting investors left a bad taste in my mouth.

I deleted my account, but I still lurk on a few subs, and my IT job means I have to dig through reddit posts on a regular basis for troubleshooting purposes.

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[–] MuskyMelon@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

Perma banned from Reddit cause I compared Clarence Thomas to Stephen Candie from Django Unchained.

[–] ThatWeirdGuy1001@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Mix of both.

I got perma banned for telling someone to crawl back into their hole because they were defending female genital mutilation while saying circumcision was perfectly fine because uncut penises "looked nasty".

But I can still access all of reddit. I just can't comment or upvote/downvote anything. And the nsfw instance of lemmy is a shit show of having to constantly block the same content over and over because there's eleventy billion versions of the same community.

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[–] Simon@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Yes I'm permanently fingerprint/IP banned as of last year.

I posted anti-Isreal comments on one of the largest default subreddits, which perma banned me. Whenever I browsed through the front page and commented in that subreddit on my other accounts because I forgot I was banned there, all of my accounts were banned for ban evasion. This happened twice and then I was perma-ed.

For context I used and contributed to the site regularly since Digg without much issue or any bans

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[–] Raiderkev@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago
[–] HiddenLayer555@lemmy.ml 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I still have Reddit where I post to r/Vancouver and r/Worldbuilding, mainly because Lemmy doesn't really have active communities for those where new stuff gets posted every day. Once Lemmy gets large enough (which I believe it will) for those communities to become active I'll probably stop posting to Reddit. Or if they get rid of the old UI. Whichever comes first.

[–] rational_lib@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

Reddit had its advantages but when they forced everyone to have r/all as a default sub I feel like the content really started going downhill and all the subs started becoming the same. Then when the API thing happened I realized it wasn't going to get better, they were determined to become Facebook.

[–] Sprawl@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

I want to use Lemmy more but the content just isn’t enough yet especially on niche topics and hobbies. I do try to come here for the “front page” over Reddit, since those posts on Reddit get so many replies you ain’t reading them all anyways.

But when it’s time to talk World of Warcraft, for example, Lemmy is mostly dead.

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[–] 1024_Kibibytes@lemm.ee 6 points 1 week ago

I haven't been on Reddit much since they banned 3rd party apps.

[–] Tartas1995@discuss.tchncs.de 6 points 1 week ago

I nuked my own accounts. Fuck reddit.

[–] oliver@lemmy.midgardmates.com 6 points 1 week ago

Already planned to leave after they cut off third party apps and finally made the move recently due to the CEO bowing for M*sk and deleting unwanted content. Was already looking at Lemmy and finally set up my instance and made the move - and it works for me.

[–] Aggravationstation@feddit.uk 6 points 1 week ago (2 children)

The spez protests led to a lot of people sharing alternatives on Reddit and when I heard there was an open source alternative, checked it out and saw posts about Linux and beans I knew I'd never go back.

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[–] Sam_Bass@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Permabanned but I do like it here

[–] Viskio_Neta_Kafo@lemm.ee 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The only thing is I hope it grows so there is more non political content.

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[–] Cruxifux@feddit.nl 5 points 1 week ago

I’m permanently banned from Reddit. But Lemmy is absolutely better for me.

[–] SSNs4evr@leminal.space 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (8 children)

I'm permanently banned from Reddit. I don't like Lemmy nearly as much, but it's probably just that I'm less familiar and haven't figured it all out. Finding subs that I liked in Reddit was much easier, but there's the obvious moderator issues with Reddit - mainly that I'm banned.

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[–] Shotgun_Alice@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

No, I still have my account but never use it anymore. After the api fiasco I came over here because I didn’t like how Reddit went about everything. I like it better here I get a bit of content and I’m done for the day, Reddit was addicting and it was made to be. Here I just check the feed until I get to yesterday stuff and I’m done for the day. I’m pretty sure I’m gonna see the same stuff just it’s just not endlessly regurgitated by bots and karma farmers. I like it better here, feels cozy compared to Reddit.

[–] NotSteve_@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I just refuse to use the official mobile app. When they killed Apollo, I left. I’ll use old Reddit sometimes when on my desktop but all my mobile browsing is on Lemmy with Voyager

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[–] fmstrat@lemmy.nowsci.com 5 points 1 week ago

~~47~~ 0 days since seeing a post from someone who still cares about Reddit for some reason.

[–] lemuria@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 week ago

My reddit username is tied to multiple embarassing things I did when I was a lot more immature, during my early 10s, and now that I'm in my late 10s, I'd rather not have my embarassing 2018 things affect my 2025 things.

[–] los_chill@programming.dev 5 points 1 week ago

I prefer this community.

[–] alecbowles@lemm.ee 5 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I deleted my own Reddit accounts after They started censoring posts and subreddits.

There was all too many fuckups in the last few years.

  • The API scandal
  • The wallstreetbets scandal
  • Spez and Fuck Reddit
  • the Antiwork community scandal
  • the Luigi censorship LGBT and EDI

They have no control of that platform their hands are tied. They are sold.

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[–] doomcanoe@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Just like Lemmy more.

I do miss the ability to find conversations about any niche topic I want.

But the conversations on Lemmy are more genuine/authentic and the platform is run on principal/morals. An enshittified platform based on greed and inundated with bots could never compete.

Put another way, Reddit feels like I'm talking to the ''internet'', Lemmy feels like I'm talking to people.

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[–] Cenotaph@mander.xyz 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

My account is in fine standing, left because I couldnt use reddit is fun anymore and there was no way I was going to switch to their app

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[–] breadguy@kbin.earth 5 points 1 week ago

I prefer open and ad free options where possible, but reddit has more stuff so I'm in both places

[–] nitefox@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 week ago

Got banned for saying Luigi was right

[–] db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 week ago

Still unbanned even though I blacked out /r/piracy then actively pushed our community here until the only people left in /r/piracy were the bootlickers who wanted to reopen it and continue as usual. I never go to reddit anymore except to agitate for moving to lemmy.

[–] pyre@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

no they just closed the api for 3rd party apps. I wasn't going to use their shitty app. the official app was literally the worst of all of them so this was the only way they were going to get users but fuck that. I don't need reddit.

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[–] NotJohnSmith@feddit.uk 5 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Going cold turkey. Bizarrely I like lemmy more as there's less content so I don't scroll as much.

I nuke my accounts pretty regularly for data security so didnt really have any value in my account (none of this "I had 1500 karma coins" or whatever)

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[–] AntelopeRoom@lemm.ee 5 points 1 week ago

Left reddit during the API drama out of principle. I only read reddit now via 3rd party apps, I don't contribute. I spend most of my time on Lemmy. My goal is for enough niche communities to grow here that I can give up reddit entirely.

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