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[–] Corno@lemm.ee 1 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

Never been banned from anywhere nor do I intend to. I never made a Reddit account because of that scandal where a really talented artist got banned because the mods thought their art was AI generated even though the artist kept proving it wasn't. What happened to Reddit since has only cemented my pre existing disdain for that site.

I decided to join social media early last year and I remember Lemmy was on one of the lists of new social media sites, so I joined it and have been having a great time ever since! πŸ˜ƒ

[–] early_riser@lemmy.radio 1 points 1 day ago

I find it interesting that there's a mix of commenters complaining that Reddit is at opposite ends of the political spectrum.

[–] bizzle@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

I go on reddit every now and again, but the Lemmy experience is better.

[–] AntelopeRoom@lemm.ee 5 points 1 day ago

Left reddit during the API drama out of principle. I only read reddit now via 3rd party apps, I don't contribute. I spend most of my time on Lemmy. My goal is for enough niche communities to grow here that I can give up reddit entirely.

[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 day ago

I like Lemmy more.

[–] Delta_V@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Just like Lemmy more.

Reddit gave me a temp ban, but I declined their generous offer to return after a week.

I had reported a post by some far-right religious fundamentalist for promoting political violence. Reddit told me that reporting ToS-breaking content is a bannable offense, perhaps because the far-right owners of reddit feel like kindred spirits to the uber-conservative terrorist sympathizer that got reported.

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[–] doomcanoe@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Just like Lemmy more.

I do miss the ability to find conversations about any niche topic I want.

But the conversations on Lemmy are more genuine/authentic and the platform is run on principal/morals. An enshittified platform based on greed and inundated with bots could never compete.

Put another way, Reddit feels like I'm talking to the ''internet'', Lemmy feels like I'm talking to people.

[–] mrnarwall@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

This puts into words what I've been feeling more and more over the years. I felt that Reddit had developed some sort of language all its own (thanks for the gold kind stranger, happy cakeday, etc), that felt off to me. On top of that, the sensationalism, and the ever increasing political echo chambers, and then closing the API access to force everyone onto their own app out the final nail in the coffin for me. I'm not off reddit entirely, but I've gone read only and only on a computer. Lemmy seems more organic, and genuine to me

[–] KeenFlame@feddit.nu 1 points 1 day ago

I like lenmy more

[–] mrmule@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago

Left reddit when Sync stopped working. Been here ever since and I actually prefer it here anyway.

Reddit was and probably still is an echo chamber of bots and catch phrases. There were a few useful gems of information when you googled something, but now most of that content has become unreliable due to some people (like me) who salted and later deleted their comments before leaving.

Also Spez was a dick πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ

[–] S_H_K@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 1 day ago

Left on the API troubles went back once or twice for warframe and other small comunities but been liking here much better. I engage with people in here. It doesn't feel like screaming into the void.

[–] NotSteve_@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I just refuse to use the official mobile app. When they killed Apollo, I left. I’ll use old Reddit sometimes when on my desktop but all my mobile browsing is on Lemmy with Voyager

[–] illegible@discuss.tchncs.de 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I use "Yesterday for old reddit" for a rough Apollo-like experience on iOS devices. That being said, i'm gradually shifting away from reddit as i find more communities on lemmy.

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[–] TAG@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I still have 2 Reddit accounts in good standing. I used Reddit entirely via the Reddit Is Fun app. I tried the official Reddit app but the ads flooded out content and performance was trash.

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[–] dangrousperson@feddit.org 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I chose to leave a year ago as the 3rd party apps (I was using RiF (Reddit is Fun)) were being killed. Realized it was the beginning of the end and I left.

Tried a couple of Lemmy apps since then (and I have been mostly lurking) and landed on Connect for Lemmy and I'm very happy to have left the corporate hell-hole of social media

[–] grimoire@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Neither, I still use reddit because the subreddits pertaining to my interests are still active. Lemmy is almost entirely political discussion and boomer Facebook comic strips from what I've seen, and most other boards pertaining to specific interests have low activity here. If that wasn't the case I would be using Lemmy much more.

[–] ArtificialHoldings@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Same - I'm here more for the promise of a better experience rather than the better experience itself. Still waiting for the tipping point where niche topical communities have more than 1 post every 3 days.

Not trying to start shit, but some of the people in this thread need to realize that if they replied to people here like they replied on reddit, they'll eventually get banned from instances too. And instance owners will exercise way more discretion than a website with a TOS.

[–] Emperor@feddit.uk 3 points 1 day ago

Left during the APIcalypse, largely only go back to help guide people to the fire exits.

No, I had a reddit account in good standing that was around a decade old, I switched to Lemmy when it became clear that Reddit was being run by the regressive conservative tech world, eventually I also deleted my reddit account as part of a purge of my online identity.

[–] Shotgun_Alice@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago

No, I still have my account but never use it anymore. After the api fiasco I came over here because I didn’t like how Reddit went about everything. I like it better here I get a bit of content and I’m done for the day, Reddit was addicting and it was made to be. Here I just check the feed until I get to yesterday stuff and I’m done for the day. I’m pretty sure I’m gonna see the same stuff just it’s just not endlessly regurgitated by bots and karma farmers. I like it better here, feels cozy compared to Reddit.

[–] MuskyMelon@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago

Perma banned from Reddit cause I compared Clarence Thomas to Stephen Candie from Django Unchained.

[–] GaMEChld@lemmy.world 22 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (4 children)

I switched during the API fiasco. Most of my browsing is from mobile and I refused to use the crappy official app. Content had been declining in quality anyway, so I didn't feel that strongly about it.

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[–] fmstrat@lemmy.nowsci.com 5 points 2 days ago

~~47~~ 0 days since seeing a post from someone who still cares about Reddit for some reason.

[–] Tungsten5@lemm.ee 7 points 2 days ago

I got a perma ban from reddit. Ive said this in other comments but I’ll add it here: A mod locked a post I was looking at and said something about how the post wasn’t good (I can’t remember exactly what the mod said). I responded by telling to the mod β€œget lost”. I got perma banned from that subreddit. Then like 5 months later I smoked some weed and, for whatever reason, felt the need to message the mod and say β€œspank spank spank. Thats the sound I make as I spank you. Yes yes yes. Thats the sound you make as I spank you”. Thats when I got a phat perma ban from the admins. I made another reddit account on a vpn. All seemed well until I launched reddit with the vpn off by accident. My new account was banned shortly after this. Either way, after the first ban I was looking at alternatives. I found the lemmsters. I still have the reddit app with my perma banned account. I can browse reddit all I want but I don’t use it for anything other than porn or when I google something and a reddit link pops up where my question is being answered. There are things I miss about reddit. Primarily I miss the large chess community there. It is far more developed than the chess community on lemmy. I wish I could get the chess community going here. I don’t really miss reddit for anything else. This is evident by the fact that I could’ve been on reddit right now, but instead I prefer to browse lemmy. I really like the fediverse idea. It interests me greatly and I hope to see it grow! One thing that is exciting that I missed out on with reddit is being there from the beginning. I know lemmy/fediverse is newer so I am happy to join during the more early stages and see how the fediverse as a whole grows.

[–] ragingdachshund@lemm.ee 4 points 2 days ago
[–] Octagon9561@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 day ago

No but Reddit sucks.

I nuked my own accounts. Fuck reddit.

[–] Sanctus@lemmy.world 142 points 3 days ago (5 children)

I just like Lemmy more. No NFTs, or Karma meaning anything. It feels like it was plucked from an older time.

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[–] ndupont@feddit.uk 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I left when RIF was disabled, 2 years ago now or close

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[–] technohippie@slrpnk.net 7 points 2 days ago

I liked Reddit but I couldn't ignore what's happening there anymore. Anyway Lemmy is cool too, not missing it that much.

[–] Afflictedlife@lemmy.ml 12 points 2 days ago

Not banned, was never active. Just lurked on certain subreddits. I've engaged way more here than I ever did there

I just like Lemmy more

[–] Raiderkev@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago
[–] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I liked reddit but came here because I'm Canadian and am trying my best to ween myself from american products and services due to the american administrations newfound disrespect for my country. Also, tariffs.

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[–] Maeve@kbin.earth 120 points 3 days ago (7 children)

I came voluntarily after the third party app debacle. I never even used a third party app, it had just gotten so ridiculous that when moderators were putting together a blackout in protest, I made the decision that's when I was leaving and never returning, so that's what I did.

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[–] alecbowles@lemm.ee 5 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I deleted my own Reddit accounts after They started censoring posts and subreddits.

There was all too many fuckups in the last few years.

  • The API scandal
  • The wallstreetbets scandal
  • Spez and Fuck Reddit
  • the Antiwork community scandal
  • the Luigi censorship LGBT and EDI

They have no control of that platform their hands are tied. They are sold.

[–] interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Did the antiwork people secretely work? What hypocritical thing did they do? Did they produce value for somebody else? Those FUCKS!?

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[–] HexagonSun@sh.itjust.works 12 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I’ve never been banned from Reddit even temporarily, I just like Lemmy more

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[–] UltraBlack@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I want lemmy to succeed. Sadly reddit has better shitposts

Lemmy has good apps. Reddit does not. Easy as.

[–] nutsack@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (2 children)

reddit was better simply because it has more people. but it's unusable without api access and alternative clients like sync and boost.

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[–] chrand@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 day ago

Reddit sucks, it's getting worse day after day. I'm still there, but moving to Lemmy.

[–] Pestilence@feddit.org 17 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (2 children)

I've just deleted my Reddit account, to switch entirly to Lemmy. No ban or something, i just don't want to use social media from the US anymore.

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[–] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 69 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Nope, not banned, chose to leave. Realized most of my anxiety and fear were due to Reddit's algorithm amping up my issues.

Was banned from a couple of subs for promoting Lemmy though.

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[–] swampwitch@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

I just switched when the API nonsense shat all over the actually good reddit apps, since I primarily used reddit on my phone.

I saw lemmy touted as an alternative and figured why not?

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