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Pet Peeves

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Welcome to Pet Peeves, where the little things that annoy you are welcome.

Ever notice the thousands of posts and comments out there that just grind your gears? You always want to say something about how much whatever it is sucks, and you hate it. But, then you're going off topic and get people mad at you.

Well, don't do that. Come here instead! Tell us about your pet peeve!


Rules are simple

1: Do not link to comments or posts elsewhere. This ain't power tripping bastards, we aren't here to judge users or mods, we're here to vent a little spleen about the minor annoyances of life.

2: IF screen shots are used, they must have any and all user names obscured fully, and any community names as well. Like already said, this isn't about going after anyone or anywhere in specific, it's about us having a peeve.

3: Wheaton's law is in effect. Don't be a dick. It ain't cool, and it won't be allowed to stay up. Fair warning ahead of time, mods make the call as to what is and isn't dickish. Complaining about it won't get you anywhere. If it's a misunderstanding, so be it, but the dickish comment will still be gone because if one person reads it as dickish, more probably would too. So go back and rewrite whatever it was.

4: If it isn't obvious, bigotry is inherently dickish. Doesn't matter if it's blatant or dog whistles, don't do it, you'll get immediately banned.

5: Cursing is absolutely allowed, but not cursing at people. Motherfuckers may well be annoying, but when you specify an individual as a motherfucker, that's not likely to end in a friendly way. You dig, motherfuckers?


Post guidelines

Try to remember that any pet peeve you have is likely something other beings do with no ill intent. So try to keep it about you, not them. Explain why it annoys you, rather than just ranting about other people, there's already communities for that kind of thing.

Example: Turn signals being left on. Annoying as hell, because now you don't know if they're really signaling to turn, if it's something they didn't know they did, etc, so now you have to pay extra attention instead of focusing on your own driving and navigation.

Don't just complain about how stupid the people must be, how inconsiderate. Keep the focus on the inconvenience itself.


Feel free to refer folks here when they go off topic about their peeves, that's part of why we're here :)

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[–] rainrain@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

Put "stupid questions" in quotes and then it makes sense.

We want funny ha ha stupid. Not transgressive stupid. Never ever cross the hive.

[–] Mauntra@sh.itjust.works 13 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

it's literally called "no stupid questions", so it obviously was made as a place for non stupid questions

[–] CraigCabbage@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It’s not because “there are no (such thing as) stupid questions”?

[–] entwine413@lemm.ee 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I feel you!

But I also get it too. Sometimes, the question is stupid, so there's a strong urge to point it out.

Thing is, that's the point of the community, that you're supposed to be able to ask almost anything and have the question answered without mockery or derision. The almost is because some people will abuse it and try to sneak in bigotry in disguise, and there are some topics that may be barred to prevent endless repetition or slap fights in comment sections that do nothing useful.

If someone only makes an empty comment, they're kinda useless. And the ones that only comment to say "this is a stupid question" oughta be banned, permanently, imo. Now, it's fine to crack a joke about it if you're going to actually answer the fucking question, but if you can't be bothered to give an on topic response along with a joke, you can fuck right off.

[–] CraigCabbage@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Wasn’t on no stupid questions, but someone asked “is it normal to be yelled at for asking a question” and they were called an idiot and a troll just for asking, iirc. Maybe I was too emotional, but I reported it for not being civil

[–] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I saw that post, and it annoyed the hell out of me too. That person is just a kid, and a pretty nice one at that.

Like, fuck, this kid is in here trying to learn and figure things out, maybe don't be a dick to them and they'll grow up into the kind of human being that's considerate and patient with others. It takes way less effort to just scroll on by instead of being a dick to someone that isn't hurting anyone.

[–] alexsystem@lemmings.world 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

if it's who i think it is, it's miraculous they aren't banned. they seem to have a history of hostility to ppl they disagree with. May be someone else but i remember them complaining to ban a user bc "i disagree with op, they don't. Must be an alt."

[–] CraigCabbage@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago

Oh. How immature for someone likely considerably older than OP

[–] CraigCabbage@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

That's what I was saying, or was that comment to the wrong person?

[–] drbollocks@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

i think he’s agreeing w u

[–] southsamurai@sh.itjust.works 1 points 10 hours ago

Could be :)