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[–] themoken@startrek.website 2 points 1 hour ago

Use the 'scaled' sort for your frontpage. Helps keep the smaller communities you sub to from getting totally drowned out by some of the larger ones.

[–] pineapplelover@lemm.ee 1 points 1 hour ago

Find communities you want to see on here and subscribe to them. If you just go through home feed then it's mainly politics and tech news.

[–] OldChicoAle@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago

Stay true to your heart.

[–] geneva_convenience@lemmy.ml 10 points 10 hours ago

Ignore people who start screaming insults about instances which are not their own.

[–] capuccino@lemmy.world 1 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Don't give Loch Ness monster 3.50.

[–] OldChicoAle@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago

What do you want from us, monster?!

[–] Azzu@lemm.ee 6 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) (1 children)

If you use it in the web version, I have LULs, a script which makes all Lemmy links that point to a different instance which you encounter while browsing, to point to your instance.

[–] ulterno@programming.dev 0 points 6 hours ago
[–] wyrmroot@programming.dev 1 points 8 hours ago

Nah you’re doing fine

[–] mpblack@lemmy.ml 7 points 13 hours ago

Have fun - and invite your friends and relatives and colleagues 😎

[–] ByteMe@lemmy.world 7 points 14 hours ago

Have fun and try to engage. Download an app for your phone. There are multiple per os so try them all and choose what suits you best

[–] pinball_wizard@lemmy.zip 21 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

Don't get them wet, and don't feed them after midnight.

No, wait. I'm confusing Lemmy with Gremlins. Nevermind.

[–] PaulSmackage@hexbear.net 7 points 11 hours ago

Don't listen to them, this is who you're posting with

[–] ConstipatedWatson@lemmy.world 4 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Goddamn it, you're only telling us now??? 😁

[–] dysprosium@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 17 hours ago

Totally. That's why mine e.g. is much better

[–] Alaskaball@hexbear.net 8 points 15 hours ago

find some pictures of cute animals and share them with us

[–] Brkdncr@lemmy.world 28 points 19 hours ago

I found that using All to subscribe to things I like and over time using my subscribed list works.

You can also block communities you don’t want to see and view All by default.

[–] Hyphlosion@lemm.ee 9 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

Don’t eat yellow snow.

[–] TargaryenTKE@lemmy.world 3 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago) (1 children)

Scoop some into a cup and let it melt first, then you can safely drink it πŸ™‚

[–] Thordros@hexbear.net 16 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

Watch out for those radicals over on the Hexbear instance. They'll getcha!

[–] Zetta@mander.xyz 4 points 8 hours ago

Crazy hexbear goobers will remove your eyes before you know it, watch out!

[–] sgtlion@hexbear.net 8 points 14 hours ago

I gots sharp teeth I tell yah doggirl-grin

[–] davel@lemmy.ml 17 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago) (1 children)

Read a community’s rules before posting or commenting. Take this community, for instance:

  1. Not regarding using or support for Lemmy: context, see the list of support communities and tools for finding communities below

Each Lemmy instance also has its own site-wide rules.

[–] Crabhands@lemmy.ml 1 points 11 hours ago (2 children)
[–] RandomVideos@programming.dev 3 points 7 hours ago

Since there are other communities more fit for these kinds of questions

[–] can@sh.itjust.works 3 points 8 hours ago

Because other more specific communities exist for that.

[–] FunkyStuff@hexbear.net 14 points 19 hours ago (2 children)

There is only one real user here. Everyone else (including myself) is a bot.

[–] Sal@mander.xyz 7 points 14 hours ago (1 children)
[–] CptKrkIsClmbngThMntn@hexbear.net 8 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Very cool image! It looks like there's some text on it. Would you mind responding to this comment and telling me what the text says?

[–] dysprosium@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 12 hours ago

Nice try, bot

[–] sfled@lemm.ee 8 points 18 hours ago

You're the real MVB

I use voyager app, unsure about other apps or website, but check if your able to easily block users. Instances and communities, I usually scroll through the all free and block things I just can't stand and are heavily just annoying, also has a ability to filter out keyword. Makes my browsing less depressing.

[–] cyberpunk007@lemmy.ca 6 points 17 hours ago

Just use it as you would reddit or any other social media platform. Welcome.

[–] rentasonder@lemmygrad.ml 9 points 19 hours ago (2 children)
[–] dessalines@lemmy.ml 4 points 9 hours ago
[–] Zenith@lemm.ee 1 points 17 hours ago

Also play settlers of catam

[–] FUCKING_CUNO@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

Use a trusted VPN and/Tor while surfing

[–] PaulSmackage@hexbear.net 4 points 11 hours ago

Don't know what that's supposed to do when you hit the waves, but every little bit helps.

[–] dysprosium@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 12 hours ago

Why the hell would you?

[–] loaf@sh.itjust.works 8 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

Honestly, I’d just suggest engaging with any topic you enjoy. Comment, find communities you’re interested in, maybe even start your own.

Welcome! Lemmy is a great place.

[–] otter@lemmy.ca 6 points 18 hours ago

Check out !newtolemmy@lemmy.ca, we have some pinned posts. You can also ask questions as you get them :)

[–] isagani@lemmygrad.ml 6 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago)

explore different subs that catches your interests

[–] Xanthrax@lemmy.world 2 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago) (2 children)

Learn about the fediverse as much as possible! Learn about instances and check our their about bar/ page. Download a mobile application and explore the many options you have. Try to figure out why you want to be here. Check out the list of popular instances (a lot of the instances have esoteric names) and see if there's an instance that reflects your interests. Check what they're federated to, and decide if those are the kind of people you want to talk to/ share your interests. There are general instances like ".ml and .world. " These instances can become overburdened. The account you have on their instance is your access to the rest of the fediverse/ lemmy.

Our active user base is somewhat small. The biggest thing is to explore, read side bar rules, and post!

It's a lot of information, and when I first got into it, I felt over my head.

ALSO YOU CAN'T DELETE YOUR COMMENTS OUTSIDE OF YOUR INSTANCE.

Posting to 196 would be a good example.

[–] davel@lemmy.ml 3 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

ALSO YOU CAN’T DELETE YOUR COMMENTS OUTSIDE OF YOUR INSTANCE.

Yes you can. But just as is true with posting and editing, sometimes a deletion will fail to federate to all instances. No federation action is guaranteed, but rather best effort.

[–] Xanthrax@lemmy.world 1 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Sorry, you can't delete your comment if they choose to disallow that. That's common on lemmy. That's why you'll get downvotes on poorly written comments you give up on and delete.

[–] davel@lemmy.ml 1 points 4 hours ago

Sorry, you can’t delete your comment if they choose to disallow that. That’s common on lemmy.

Please show me a single case where that actually happened.

[–] Zenith@lemm.ee 0 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Ok what even is β€œthe fediverse” and why is it called that?

I’m here to waste time, like I’d imagine most of us are

[–] Xanthrax@lemmy.world 1 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

It's a series of self hosted, inter connected, social (mostly) media platforms sharing similar names/ templates. Lemmy is like reddit, but even more decentralized than something like mastadon, which is like twitter.Twitter. Most social media apps have/ used to have a specific purpose. Honestly, I should have this compiled in a clean and easy to share format.

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