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[–] schmorpel@slrpnk.net 48 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I have been saying that to people I know, and most feel the same way. Talking about it helps! There's no need anymore to pretend we have our shit together. If someone has got their shit together under the current circumstances they are either insane or part of the problem

[–] LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

What specific current circumstances?

[–] schmorpel@slrpnk.net 16 points 2 months ago (1 children)

shrugs gestures around The ongoing everything crisis of everything?

[–] LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Yeah the world is pretty hopeless but you just gotta not let that affect you. Live like the world already ended a long time ago. Take things day by day.

[–] schmorpel@slrpnk.net 2 points 2 months ago

That's a nice way to look at it (hmm well maybe not nice, but very useful).

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

If the world ends the first thing I'm going to do is stop paying rent and taxes so I don't think your strategy is going to work out too well for me.

[–] LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Haha that's true, we get hopelessness and not even a tax break. That said in an actual apocalypse I doubt things would be rosy either and things like clean water, electricity and frozen pizza would be missed. We don't get to pick really, but it helps knowing things could at least be awful differently, and in that version of the world there's be us wishing for what we have.

[–] frezik@lemmy.blahaj.zone 24 points 2 months ago

I like having friends where I can just say that and they understand, but I also understand that's hard to achieve.

[–] Chee_Koala@lemmy.world 21 points 2 months ago (1 children)

thats basically being on an involuntary spirit journey a d they were busy trying to return to reality

[–] Viking_Hippie@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 2 months ago

"Disassociating as a means of self defense, be back later"

[–] skulblaka@sh.itjust.works 12 points 2 months ago

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[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 7 points 2 months ago

Idk but there is someone I would like to tell this because I still want to be friends but I just don't feel like talking and don't know them well enough to know if they would appreciate the same memes I like. I just keep sending them stickers whenever I think about them and hope they understand 😩

[–] IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

msn messenger had a thing you could click if you were online (you're username would have a green circle), online but not available (yellow circle) or offline (red circle), we need that back and another option for dissociating (purple?)

[–] Demdaru@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago

I mean, there's invisible mode almost everywhere. Just doesn't show you're online

[–] OCATMBBL@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Saying anything at all is the antithesis of the whole concept. The correct answer is to say nothing.

[–] morphballganon@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

But then they think you hate them

[–] anzo@programming.dev 1 points 2 months ago

Not if you ocassionally send memes (:

[–] RickyRigatoni@retrolemmy.com 4 points 2 months ago

How do I tell this to someone I haven't talked to in 20 years because I've been feeling this way for most of my life.

[–] mienshao@lemm.ee 3 points 2 months ago

I can help! You tell them “I’m clearly depressed, do you know any good mental health resources?”

[–] NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone 2 points 2 months ago
[–] Shizu@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

“I was busy.”

[–] Jankatarch@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago

Wait for them to ask why you are so quiet and answer "I am just tired."

[–] SunshineJogger@feddit.org 1 points 2 months ago

Nothing matters.