I have a feeling it has to do with a lot of the things that you and I would consider societal progress.
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Idk why people want to go back to the 1950s they sucked.
I kind of think of the 50s as kind of a major turning point for the US. There were a lot of seeds of greatness then that weren't properly nurtured in the following decades so that they could grow.
While just about every other country in the world was trying to put themselves back together from WWII, we had emerged not only unscathed, but in almost every measure better than we were before. We had military might, we had a booming economy, manufacturing, science, technology, arts, entertainment, cars, appliances, TV, electricity all on a scale previous generations could only dream about.
Even if you were part of a marginalized group- black, LGBTQ, female, etc. there were some glimmers of hope that looked like things might get better soon- the civil rights movement was picking up steam, there were some early LGBTQ rights movements and demonstrations taking shape, women entered the workforce in a big way during the war, and after the war mostly returned to the home afterwards but those seeds were planted, I don't think it's a coincidence that little girls growing up in the 40s watching the women in their lives being the Rosie the Riveter would become the ones who embraced 2nd wave feminism 20 or so years later.
And of course we had high corporate taxes helping to fund it all.
It wasn't all sunshine and roses of course, and you will certainly find no shortage of people here on Lemmy who will happily spell out all of the many reasons the 1950s sucked, and I don't disagree with them, but that's not what you asked, so I'm not going to go into that.
The 50s were a major leap forward in the quality of life for many people in america, and while far from perfect, there is definitely an angle you can look at it from where things looked like they were more-or-less on the right track.
Because white guys.
Because they were young then.
Yes. Nostalgia softens sharp edges, brightens sunny spots.
A little later, maybe, but much the same... on the upside:
- we were optimistic.
- we were going to conquer space, and it was going to be real live humans, not semi-autonomous robots
- society (in the US and W. Europe) was (very) slowly getting more progressive.
- Hitler had been killed, and fascism defeated forever. Never again would we have another dictator; never again would we watch a country commit genocide against a people.
- life was slower. TV was the bad influence rotting kids brains. We didn't have an entire industry focused on commoditizing us.
- computers were fucking incredible. The future we imagined coming from computers was very, very different than what we ended up with. For one thing, we didn't imagine a single-minded focus of all software and computing power on commercializing every aspect of our life.
- no Facebook, no Twitter, no TikTok
- Income disparity was far less extreme, and class mobility was a realistic dream. You could imagine buying a nice house and raising a family on a single income. If you worked hard and had a little luck you could pass on some reasonable wealth to your kids.
- shit really was - in the aggregate - getting better all around. Technology was advancing and bringing amazing products; science was being discovered that you could basically wrap your head around. Lives (in the Western world) were improving (relatively, compared to previous decades) for most people, and all this happened at a pace that didn't up-end your world every day, 365 days a year.
- you could get all the news you needed for a fairly rounded world view in a single newspaper, much of which you could read over breakfast. There was no information overload.
On the downsides,
- dad beat us with a belt as punishment
- we were having wars that were disrupting society. The draft was a real worry.
- we were constantly afraid that nuclear war could happen at any time
- commies were hiding under our beds
- minorities of all kinds were fighting for their rights, and fighting to get them enforced. It sucked to be gay, or black, or a woman (but it was getting better, slowly)
- most people didn't have access to a computer, much less a PC until well into the 80's, so you had to infiltrate University computer labs.
It was a slower world, with fewer consumer goods, fewer conveniences, and worse medical care. Everybody smoked, all the time. But slower was good, and - best of all - we didn't realize yet that we were killing the planet; the world wasn't ending.
Have your asked your dad? What does he say? Did you tell him that you think it would be harder for you and ask what his opinion is?
Not saying you have to, just curious if you did how it went. I'm in a similar boat.
He just says times were simpler and i think something about segregation still being a thing. i haven't told him because he just thinks i'm a girl.
Lol, so racism.
White privilege.
They like Jello as much as they love Jim crow
Hate
I feel like it would be harder for me then as a queer person.
This is why they want it