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submitted 7 months ago by RQG@lemmy.world to c/dnd@lemmy.world

Earlier today I was browsing through shelves at a toy store to look for a last gift for one of my daughters. That's when I hear an excited voice ask one of the store employees 'do you have dungeons and dragons?'. I listen in and learn that they do not have any DnD material at all and also can't order it. I walk a bit closer and see 3 12 year old ish boys and a girl with disappointed faces. The employee also can't help them where to find dungeons and dragons products.

Now I live in Germany where you can't find dnd boxes at the likes of Target like in the US for example. In fact I know of 2 stores in the whole city which carry DnD books and material.

I step in and ask if I may help out with the question. I tell them that there are 2 stores which carry the books, dice and more on the other side of the city. They said that's far away but they'll try to go there in Saturday.

We get talking and they tell me about how they are looking to start a dnd club at school and also play at home. They got a set of dice and saved around 70 euros for a book and maybe some more dice and such. I tell them that'll buy them the players handbook which is a good starting point and maybe some extra dice.

They ask me if I played as a kid and I said yes, in fact I still do and I'll be playing tonight. That's when I made a weird decision in my head. I had all my stuff already with me so I don't have to go back home between work and game night. I opened my backpack and gave them my copies of the PHB and Monster Manual. They were super excited and actually insisted to pay me but I'd have felt bad taking money from them.

I didn't want to post this as virtue signaling stuff or anything. It was just kind of a crazy decision I made that I think was kinda cool. They just reminded me so much of me when I started out. We were lucky to get our first dnd books gifted by an older brother of one of our group's members. So I wanted to pay it forward. Now I just have to figure out how to run tonight's game without my books.

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[-] Alivrah@lemmy.world 67 points 7 months ago

There will be tales of the mysterious stranger who gifted the party arcane knowledge before vanishing in the blink of an eye...

As the young adventurers rushed to their guild, ready to share the treasure they were handed by the kind traveller, they could hear seven canaries singing happily.

[-] blanketswithsmallpox@lemmy.world 18 points 7 months ago

I stick one of the canaries up my butthole.

[-] bustrpoindextr@lemmy.world 6 points 7 months ago

A floating frog adorned in royal garb appears in front of the canary and calls him "Lemmywinks"

[-] blanketswithsmallpox@lemmy.world 3 points 7 months ago

Who am I? Just a friend. The way back has been closed by the great and noble Sphincter.

"Say what?"

[-] AngryCommieKender@lemmy.world 5 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

It transforms back into the Ancient Brass Dragon that it is, and rips you in half from the inside. Roll 20× d10 for damage

[-] blanketswithsmallpox@lemmy.world 2 points 7 months ago

DM you've misinterpreted how gaping my butthole already is... This isn't some so tight it sounds like whales singing shit.

Besides, my butthole is where the entrance to my bag of holding is.

[-] AngryCommieKender@lemmy.world 3 points 7 months ago

It's more massive than any standard or even epic bag of holding could possibly carry, either you just temporarily banished it to a random spot on the Astral Plane, or it dumped back into your puny colon, which again is far too small to contain an Ancient Brass Wyrm.

Also in doing so, you just irritated the rest of the canaries, (all metallic ancient Wyrms) and the old man.

Roll initiative, and I certainly hope you can survive 6 breath weapons, I wanna see what Bahamut does to your impertinent person.

[-] ComicalMayhem@lemmy.world 3 points 7 months ago

What is with Lemmy and the seven canaries guy? Like I know who he is but wow is lemmy obsessed with him

[-] AngryCommieKender@lemmy.world 2 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

It's an avatar of Bahamut (the god of good dragons) and 7 metallic (good) dragons in disguise. You don't wanna piss off the old man or the birds. I normally have them as ravens, but canaries works.

Due to how the gods of dragons work, Bahamut doesn't have a lot on his plate, so he will wander the planes and see who is a murderhobo, that needs dealt with, and who is an adventurer that he will give a favor or token to

[-] Apepollo11@lemmy.world 59 points 7 months ago

If you're the DM, you can just fall back on Rule Zero - the rules are what you say they are :)

You've done a really nice thing - I'm sure these kids will never forget it. I sometimes forget how much harder it was just to acquire stuff as kids.

[-] otter@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 7 months ago

I miss Rule Zero being summarized in the flyleaves of "rule"books. 😅

[-] dpkonofa@lemmy.world 49 points 7 months ago

If more people in the world were like you, it would probably be a better place. You have no idea what positive impact this will have on these kids but I promise you that they will remember you.

[-] RQG@lemmy.world 8 points 7 months ago

If it has anything close to the impact dnd had on me it'd be amazing.

[-] AngryCommieKender@lemmy.world 4 points 7 months ago

As another commenter said, I really hope that you feature as the avatar of Bahamut in their campaign.

[-] otter@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

Academically, how does this genuinely lovely act of kindness & compassion differ in essence to, say, sharing PDFs of the same already-purchased book with strangers simply wanting to play the game?

edit: please, be civil and don't dogpile, this is simply to spark a deeper understanding of intentional labeling and how we, as a society, often take that for granted (ie. assume it's in good faith).

[-] ComicalMayhem@lemmy.world 6 points 7 months ago

I'm confused where this question comes from and why you asked it, but will provide my own opinion on it.

In the OP's case, the book he had already purchased is a physical copy; by giving it to the kids, he transferred complete ownership and now has to purchase another book in order to have the same product for himself, providing the company with more money. With PDFs, you can just email the file and then both you and the person you gave it to have copies of the book, effectively getting 2 books for books for the price of 1.

Legally, this is piracy/theft. Morally, both are totally acceptable in my opinion. Of course, if you like something, you should support the creators whenever possible.

[-] dpkonofa@lemmy.world 1 points 7 months ago

In essence, it doesn’t. In a practical sense, however, one is taking something that’s been paid for and passing it on while the other is stealing. You can try to justify it morally all you want but those kids clearly didn’t have any qualms with giving WotC their money so you stealing on their behalf is simply an excuse.

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[-] HonorIsDead@lemmy.world 34 points 7 months ago

This is the sort of thing that keeps your hobby alive with the next generation. Very cool

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[-] lethargic_lemming@lemmy.world 22 points 7 months ago

we need more content like this, that gives me the warm fluffy feelings

[-] RQG@lemmy.world 13 points 7 months ago

That was the main reason I posted this. I thought I would enjoy seeing this on here.

[-] ArmoredThirteen@lemmy.ml 20 points 7 months ago

I have a bookshelf full of DnD and other roleplaying books. Whenever someone is over if they get particularly excited about something I always try and give it to them (unless that book holds particular sentimental value to me). Or like one time when I was moving one of the movers was talking about studying for a programming interview so I gave them a book specifically to help with that. For most my life I had very little income and I'm finally in a place where my needs are met and I'm not struggling constantly. The times people gave me things when I showed interest were really impactful and I just want to do that for others now. You're doing great things they're going to remember this

[-] Hairyblue@kbin.social 17 points 7 months ago

I find giving someone something that I enjoy is even better when you KNOW that they will use and enjoy it too.

I gave away a PS4 to someone at the office. I got the PS5 and wanted someone to enjoy the PS4 as much as I did. It made me happy to hear the games he was able to play now--and he did tell me about them.

The joy of giving is not a myth.

[-] Talaraine@kbin.social 5 points 7 months ago

Heck, I bought BG3 for an old D&D buddy of mine who didn't have much monies and have gotten nonstop enjoyment watching their complete addiction.

It might be the best gift I've ever given.

[-] Hairyblue@kbin.social 3 points 7 months ago

Yes Baldur's Gate 3 is an awesome game. I have 200 hours in it and I am only 1/3 of the way through it. Great D&D game!

[-] shadowSprite@lemmy.world 4 points 7 months ago

BG3 is helping me keep my sanity through this semester of college. I'm mentally at my limits, stressed, and overwhelmed, but on the weekends I load it up and play until it doesnt matter anymore. I'm just about finished my second play through and debating whether or not I want to start a third or take a break. I also listen to the soundtrack while I'm studying, it's become one of my absolute favorite soundtracks.

[-] Zoboomafoo@lemmy.world 14 points 7 months ago

Plot twist: they were 3.5 books

[-] sunbeam60@lemmy.one 16 points 7 months ago

The best edition. There, I said it.

[-] neidu@feddit.nl 6 points 7 months ago

Agreed. However, I've come to learn that it's far from an unpopular opinion.

[-] RQG@lemmy.world 15 points 7 months ago

I'm not giving those away. Too many memories.

[-] VubDapple@lemmy.world 13 points 7 months ago

You're a good person Mr. Fry

[-] MonsiuerPatEBrown@reddthat.com 10 points 7 months ago

Be careful. I believe that is Comic Book Guy's origin story.

[-] AphoticDev@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 7 months ago

I don't even play D&D, but I want to thank you for what you did.

[-] Nopski@lemmy.zip 9 points 7 months ago

they will never forget that day...that would be a treasured memory for them for the rest of their lives

[-] CosmicCleric@lemmy.world 7 points 7 months ago

I didn’t want to post this as virtue signaling stuff or anything. It was just kind of a crazy decision I made that I think was kinda cool. They just reminded me so much of me when I started out. We were lucky to get our first dnd books gifted by an older brother of one of our group’s members. So I wanted to pay it forward. Now I just have to figure out how to run tonight’s game without my books.

Truly, thanks for being nice to others. We need more of that in the World, especially these days.

Paying it forward, nice.
I'm sure they'll remember this day in decades.

[-] Perfide@reddthat.com 7 points 7 months ago

You could "acquire" a pdf version of the books.

[-] RQG@lemmy.world 5 points 7 months ago

I'm moving to Pathfinder 2e anyways after this campaign ends. I do still own another copy of the PHB which my daughter uses for her games. So I'll have to break the news to her that we have to share that one now. And one of my players agreed to lend me his monster manual for now.

[-] z00s@lemmy.world 6 points 7 months ago

Congratulations on your excellent virtue, you have more signal than kraftwerk

[-] RQG@lemmy.world 2 points 7 months ago

I was a bit worried that if might come across as that. But it's more about sharing a positive story I think.

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[-] th3raid0r@tucson.social 5 points 7 months ago

A similar thing happened to me as a kid!

One of my favorite substitute teachers saw me trying to play a homebrew RPG with typical d6's - all because I couldn't afford the actual D&D books. After a few times, he came with his old 1st edition AD&D stuff and gave it all to me.

Now, sure, it was the early aughts and folks were playing 3.0/3.5 and he gave me 1st edition books, but still!

He also gave me all of his dice. Every single one. I still have (most) of them.

I've already had a couple of chances to pay it forward a few times myself!

[-] bstix@feddit.dk 4 points 7 months ago

That's the spirit. It's been several decades since I last played DnD (came by here from "all"), but I know it from other hobbies. When you actually care about a hobby, you care about people wanting to try it and keep it active.

[-] sgbrain7@lemm.ee 3 points 7 months ago

Well, good luck on your game! I hope you memorized enough. Also, that was very kind and generous of you. Those kids are gonna have a blast.

[-] shasta@lemm.ee 3 points 7 months ago

As for what to do for your game tonight, all of the source books are available on dndbeyond.com digitally

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