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For me it feels like breaking up with someone after many years. At the same time, I feel a bit dirty mentioning the name in the post title.

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[โ€“] FuryFaceofDoom@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

Yes I am a little sad. I just deleted my account(s) this morning. 7 years on Reddit, and it was my go-to platform. But it is clear that Reddit does not care about its users, so I won't be using Reddit anymore

[โ€“] ioNabio@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

No. I am very happy at discovering a new place. I also miss the social media, pre 2010s. like in 2005, it was amazing and people felt much closer. One had a feeling that everyone is genuinely here to help and enjoy while socializing, rather than karma farming.

I am talking before Facebook grew big. The time of Orkut, Gazzag, old reddit, Slashdot. or even yahoo messenger, mIRC, before all those websites became a thing. I was not afraid of posting something, and wasn't looking for votes, or afraid of down votes. Main aim of contributing to a post of joining in the discussion.

[โ€“] Lexica@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 year ago

I'm gonna miss the posts, communities, and history. But Reddit itself, not really. It's just one big, bloated fourm site with a reputation that was already on a downward slope. Hopefully Lemmy will grow to be even greater, seeing as it's in the hands of the users than a company.

[โ€“] Quentinp@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago

Not really sad. I never found reddit inspired deep connections to communities anyways. It's not so bad to change things up now and again.

[โ€“] c0mplexx@feddit.de 1 points 1 year ago

My main issue is all the useful information that might be gone with a decent chunk of people editing and removing their comments or even subreddits going private
Otherwise, I got perma-banned from Reddit for commenting the navy seal copypasta in a thread where people were clearly sarcastic so I don't care

I do feel some kind of sadness, but I feel... free. Reddit started becoming addictive to me some time ago and I have noticed that Lemmy seems to have less trolls, perverts, power tripping mods and just simply batshit crazy people. I do feel an urge to check out how Reddit is doing, but I'll soon go to a place without a proper internet connection so I think I'll finally be able to cure my Reddit addiction. My experience with Lemmy has been very positive so far.

[โ€“] poofbirb@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

no I fucking hate Reddit

[โ€“] VitaminH@midwest.social 1 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

My Reddit account was turning 16 in August (that's older than some Redditors I'm sure!). It was a wild ride, back in the days where Reddit worshiped Ron Paul, and the entire front page was "Upvote if !", to today's mess. Kinda bittersweet yes but a change and some competition is long overdue!

[โ€“] Viktorian@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago

Not really, I just miss some of the subs that I used to frequent. Most of them already exist somewhere in the Fediverse and just need to gain some traction. The other thing I miss is my app, RedReader, but the author has plans to extend it to support Lemmy or similar in the future so I'm good.

[โ€“] j8stereo@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 year ago

No; good riddance.

[โ€“] DarkErmac@kbin.social 1 points 1 year ago

Reddit kinda stopped being fun at some point, and I didnโ€™t even realize it until I came here. The lack of doomscrolling potential here is an added bonus.

[โ€“] seesaw@lemmy.ml 0 points 1 year ago

I'm permanently suspended anyway, there's no way back. They somehow find me if I create a new account lol

[โ€“] fne8w2ah@lemmy.world 0 points 1 year ago

8 years of LTL on old reddit and RiF, and it's a weird mixture of grief and freedom at the same time.

[โ€“] mook@lemmy.ml 0 points 1 year ago

Um. Yeah. Taking a break from it for a few days during the blackout. Checking out the fediverse and am loving lemmy, pixelfed, and mastodon. Just joined kbin today but am a bit confused about it because I haven't found a mobile app that supports it. There are a ton of subreddits that I am missing incredibly, but you know it'll be all right. I'm hoping lemmy grows a bit, but not too big. I just enjoy a string of random posts.

[โ€“] eifer@urbanists.social -1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

@Acetamide I don't understand why though. We live in a capitalist system, and therefore Reddit has to make money in order to survive. On the current path, Reddit won't exist AT ALL. So we either get a Reddit with some fees that devs don't like, or no Reddit at all.

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[โ€“] unfazedbeaver@lemmy.one -1 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I miss what I lack, but reddit was also going stagnant. Time to build something greater. Decentralized, but moderated, social media is an interesting idea.

Lemmys devs' political... "Leanings" sure concern me though

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[โ€“] fairysnuff@lemmy.ml -1 points 1 year ago (3 children)

It's so stupid that people would react so emotionally as to relate their feelings to a breakup. This should be a concern to each and every one of you. It's a website. Reacting this way is delusional. You can get your dopamine hit elsewhere, with TikTok and other sources being still available, so why the breakdown?

The rage from the Reddit community has been surprising but this broken form of emotional regulation is embarrassing.

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[โ€“] teuast@lemmy.world -2 points 1 year ago

Sometimes it's time for a change.

[โ€“] fairysnuff@lemmy.ml -3 points 1 year ago

It's so stupid that people would react so emotionally as to relate their feelings to a breakup. This should be a concern to each and every one of you. It's a website. You can get your dopamine hit elsewhere, with TikTok and other sources being still available.

The rage from the Reddit community has been surprising but this broken form of emotional regulation is embarrassing.

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