Is it possible to have some communities be exclusive to Beehaw users? I'm not advocating for cutting off the existing communities, rather adding in a few walled gardens? That would filter out anyone who doesn't want to bother explaining why they value what Beehaw is and include anyone curious enough to create a Beehaw profile to see what the less active but more Beehaw communities are like. Something like "The safest space" which is going to respectively attract and deter the people you would want.
As for having to deal with what y'all deal with at all, which the above would do nothing to diminish, I have thought for a while that y'all need more help. You guys are doing a ton of work and in my opinion a little too much work each. I don't want y'all to get burned out and not be able to continue at all. Maybe an appeal to the community that y'all can't continue like this without more help would encourage those with the ability to lighten the load?