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Obviously I can understand why mysoginists are hated upon, As their belief is all women are trash or men are superior etc. But why are incels also generally hated upon? They are lacking in a way that makes them unable to gey in a relationship, but that shouldn't necessarily mean they are mysoginists, right?

What am I missing here? I haven't ever had a relationship with a woman, but I don't hate all women either. I just consider myself unlucky. Does that make me an incel?

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[–] MindSkipperBro12@lemmy.world -1 points 8 months ago

Ah, I miss the good old days of r/incelwithouthate. The perfect site for a subhuman like me without the possible terrorism.

[–] zkfcfbzr@lemmy.world -2 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

The word incel has evolved beyond its literal meaning to refer to a specific subset of people.

Also I may be wrong here - but I think the term originated as a self-designation by a group of openly misogynist men? So even when the term originated it would have had that connotation.

Either way, there's a big difference between someone who can't get laid an an incel, even if the terms don't reflect that difference.

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