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[–] LuckingFurker@lemmy.blahaj.zone 62 points 1 year ago (2 children)

And that's why I use womens deodorant. Certainly not because I'm trans, goodness no, what are you accusing me of?

[–] euphoric_cat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 23 points 1 year ago (6 children)

hey im not judging, if i were a cis man i probably would too

[–] Binzy_Boi@supermeter.social 23 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Token cis man, much prefer the women's hygiene products, just worried about stares I'd get at the store lmao.

[–] LuckingFurker@lemmy.blahaj.zone 22 points 1 year ago

I look about as typical a dude as it's possible to and literally no-one has ever even acknowledged when I'm buying women's deodorant 🤷‍♀️

[–] DessertStorms@kbin.social 12 points 1 year ago

Beyond it not actually mattering what others think, and as others have said - the chance of anyone even noticing being miniscule, if someone looking at you really assumes that only women can use "women's" hygiene products, then they probably also assume you're buying it for a woman in your life and couldn't care less...

[–] FateOfTheCrow@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 1 year ago

Most people would just presume you're buying for someone else anyway.

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[–] LuckingFurker@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Sometimes a guy just wants to smell pretty and sometimes a guy is really a girl, and there's no possible way to know which is true

[–] FakeGreekGirl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

And both are equally valid.

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[–] shneancy@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

trans man here, I also prefer to smell like raspberries or coconuts over uh "sports", "extreme" or "blue". Though sometimes you get a nice smelling product in the men's section, like strong citrus or foresty, those are good

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[–] Gormadt@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 year ago

As a cis dude: Yeah women's deodorant is quite nice to wear

A lot of men's deodorants (when they do say what they smell like) are shit like leather, bourbon, smoke, tobacco, engine bay, etc. And our shampoo selection ain't much better.

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[–] virtueisdead@lemmy.dbzer0.com 38 points 1 year ago (3 children)

gender binary reinforcement memes suck just as much as other ways of reinforcing the gender binary

[–] FakeGreekGirl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 24 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah, this would probably be better with a bit of a wording change (like "how deodorant is sold to women/how deodorant is sold to men").

I mean, there's definitely a real phenomenon at play here, but I think it has more to do with how the system indoctrinates us than any real, actual preferences.

[–] nexussapphire@lemm.ee 11 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Yeah, I prefer the more "feminine" smells from Old Spice. I've never been a fan of pungent chemical almost cologne smells in general. I really love that they did that because things aren't that black and white. I'd try a scent and almost gag from it.

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[–] DessertStorms@kbin.social 37 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

At least "womanly" scents are descriptive, so you know more or less what you're getting, if I want to try out some "manly" scents (they get stronger more effective antiperspirant and I don't mind what "gender" I smell of), I'd have to order all of them (am housebound, can't just go around a drugstore, sniffing) just to see what iceberg, shark, and attack helicopter actually smell of lol.. It's easier to just smell of orchids.. 😂

[–] TengoDosVacas@lemmy.world 36 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I hate that everything is labeled as concepts instead of what the smell is. I don't know what a fucking Riptide Rush smells like, or a Cool Wave, or an Arctic Handjob.. just wtf is it???

yeah no for real

[–] TalesFromTheKitchen@lemmy.ml 34 points 1 year ago (1 children)

When buying perfume I pick the unisex ones, because most men's perfume smells like toilet duck. Also I like smelling like flowers or honey and smoked vanilla.

[–] TheFriar@lemm.ee 15 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–] TalesFromTheKitchen@lemmy.ml 27 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Ah, yes, toilet cleaner, thought it was universal, seems to be a European(?) thing.

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[–] FakeGreekGirl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 1 year ago

It's a brand of toilet bowl cleaner.

[–] noxy@yiffit.net 28 points 1 year ago (17 children)

I struggle to find unscented deodorant and it makes me so angry. Should not be difficult to find.

[–] FuryMaker@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago

We can't be alone here.

Unscented; it only serves the purpose of not making me sweat or smell bad. And one that doesn't stain.

[–] user224@lemmy.sdf.org 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

At least I am not the only one. As far as I know, they are widely sold in Japan along subtle scents like "Soap", but I guess that's about it.

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[–] HerbalGamer@sh.itjust.works 27 points 1 year ago (4 children)
[–] kaklerbitmap@lemmy.world 13 points 1 year ago (6 children)

Wolfthorne by Old Spice smells like fruity Sweet Tart candies 💜

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[–] VaultBoyNewVegas@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I hate anything lynx or axe as it's called in the US. In the UK almost every guy uses lynx deodorant, I used to get boxes of the stuff at Xmas from family because they never asked what I'd actually like.

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[–] Binzy_Boi@supermeter.social 26 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Okay, but icebergs go hard as a smell.

[–] euphoric_cat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 1 year ago (2 children)

i dont even know what they smell like can you describe it

[–] Binzy_Boi@supermeter.social 19 points 1 year ago

Think of smelling a glass of ice cubes fresh out of the freezer. Very neutral, but also has a slight "freshwater" scent.

[–] Gork@lemm.ee 21 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I wanna smell like a fighter jet.

Bitches love the smell of avgas.

[–] name_NULL111653@pawb.social 10 points 1 year ago

Oh yeah! They better have a 100LL option for us Skyhawk-flying folk (mostly volunteer search and rescue pilots and students).

[–] Ragdoll_X@lemmy.world 19 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I always pick the cheapest one, but if the male and female products have the same price I'll pick roses over whatever the fuck "sports" and "fresh" is supposed to smell like.

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[–] RacoonVegetable@reddthat.com 18 points 1 year ago (2 children)

This post is a fake. I have never seen an F16 deodorant.

[–] uriel238@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 year ago

Duke Cannon sells Naval Supremacy, which might be F4 Tomcat soap.

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[–] ZILtoid1991@kbin.social 15 points 1 year ago (2 children)
[–] rivvvver@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

i usually go for nutty scents or something sweet and flowery :3

[–] ClaireDeLuna@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago

You would like to smell like nutt /s

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[–] VaultBoyNewVegas@lemmy.world 14 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (3 children)

I'd rather smell citrussy or flowery over whatever the fuck the bottom picture is meant to smell like. Plus I like flowers anyway as I've a pair of converse with roses on them. So much better than wearing a pair of Adidas that's white with maybe a stripe of colour.

[–] Kusimulkku@lemm.ee 8 points 1 year ago

citrussy

🍋🥵

[–] name_NULL111653@pawb.social 7 points 1 year ago

Agreed that most of those men's scents are terrible... But as soon as they come out with Jet A and 100LL scents (aviation fuels) I'm in.

[–] barsoap@lemm.ee 6 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

citrussy

...a Citroën with good ole hydropneumatic suspension? Someone with equanimous gait? I can't keep up with all the jargon you folks here throw around.

[–] ThePyroPython@lemmy.world 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[–] Faydaikin@beehaw.org 11 points 1 year ago

I feel like Deodorants and Perfumes for men aren't as much of a choice as it is chosen for us. There's like two main smells, "Old Sweat" and "Motor Oil". Anything other than that is just variations of "Drain Cleaner Citrus".

Like clothes for men, the selection feels so limited.

[–] KingThrillgore@lemmy.ml 11 points 1 year ago

When its all just ambergris, orange oil, and citric acid

[–] galoisghost@aussie.zone 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Wait women have passionfruit flavoured deodorant? Damn I’m jealous.

[–] Visstix@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)
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[–] jabathekek@sopuli.xyz 8 points 1 year ago

I personally prefer blue goo.

[–] HerrNetzwerk@feddit.de 8 points 1 year ago

So i am running around with a scent of coal. Is it natural enough to be a female cent or adventurous enough to male?

[–] Etterra@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

I only use Sub-orbital Tactical Rocket Shark Extreme™️.

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