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[–] LuckingFurker@lemmy.blahaj.zone 62 points 2 years ago (2 children)

And that's why I use womens deodorant. Certainly not because I'm trans, goodness no, what are you accusing me of?

[–] euphoric_cat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 23 points 2 years ago (6 children)

hey im not judging, if i were a cis man i probably would too

[–] Binzy_Boi@supermeter.social 23 points 2 years ago (5 children)

Token cis man, much prefer the women's hygiene products, just worried about stares I'd get at the store lmao.

[–] LuckingFurker@lemmy.blahaj.zone 22 points 2 years ago

I look about as typical a dude as it's possible to and literally no-one has ever even acknowledged when I'm buying women's deodorant 🤷‍♀️

[–] DessertStorms@kbin.social 12 points 2 years ago

Beyond it not actually mattering what others think, and as others have said - the chance of anyone even noticing being miniscule, if someone looking at you really assumes that only women can use "women's" hygiene products, then they probably also assume you're buying it for a woman in your life and couldn't care less...

[–] FateOfTheCrow@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 2 years ago

Most people would just presume you're buying for someone else anyway.

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[–] LuckingFurker@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Sometimes a guy just wants to smell pretty and sometimes a guy is really a girl, and there's no possible way to know which is true

[–] FakeGreekGirl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 2 years ago (1 children)

And both are equally valid.

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[–] shneancy@lemmy.world 10 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

trans man here, I also prefer to smell like raspberries or coconuts over uh "sports", "extreme" or "blue". Though sometimes you get a nice smelling product in the men's section, like strong citrus or foresty, those are good

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[–] Gormadt@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 2 years ago

As a cis dude: Yeah women's deodorant is quite nice to wear

A lot of men's deodorants (when they do say what they smell like) are shit like leather, bourbon, smoke, tobacco, engine bay, etc. And our shampoo selection ain't much better.

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[–] virtueisdead@lemmy.dbzer0.com 38 points 2 years ago (3 children)

gender binary reinforcement memes suck just as much as other ways of reinforcing the gender binary

[–] FakeGreekGirl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 24 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Yeah, this would probably be better with a bit of a wording change (like "how deodorant is sold to women/how deodorant is sold to men").

I mean, there's definitely a real phenomenon at play here, but I think it has more to do with how the system indoctrinates us than any real, actual preferences.

[–] nexussapphire@lemm.ee 11 points 2 years ago (5 children)

Yeah, I prefer the more "feminine" smells from Old Spice. I've never been a fan of pungent chemical almost cologne smells in general. I really love that they did that because things aren't that black and white. I'd try a scent and almost gag from it.

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[–] DessertStorms@kbin.social 37 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

At least "womanly" scents are descriptive, so you know more or less what you're getting, if I want to try out some "manly" scents (they get stronger more effective antiperspirant and I don't mind what "gender" I smell of), I'd have to order all of them (am housebound, can't just go around a drugstore, sniffing) just to see what iceberg, shark, and attack helicopter actually smell of lol.. It's easier to just smell of orchids.. 😂

[–] TengoDosVacas@lemmy.world 36 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I hate that everything is labeled as concepts instead of what the smell is. I don't know what a fucking Riptide Rush smells like, or a Cool Wave, or an Arctic Handjob.. just wtf is it???

[–] euphoric_cat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 2 years ago

yeah no for real

[–] TalesFromTheKitchen@lemmy.ml 34 points 2 years ago (1 children)

When buying perfume I pick the unisex ones, because most men's perfume smells like toilet duck. Also I like smelling like flowers or honey and smoked vanilla.

[–] TheFriar@lemm.ee 15 points 2 years ago (2 children)
[–] TalesFromTheKitchen@lemmy.ml 27 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Ah, yes, toilet cleaner, thought it was universal, seems to be a European(?) thing.

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[–] FakeGreekGirl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 2 years ago

It's a brand of toilet bowl cleaner.

[–] noxy@yiffit.net 28 points 2 years ago (17 children)

I struggle to find unscented deodorant and it makes me so angry. Should not be difficult to find.

[–] FuryMaker@lemmy.world 10 points 2 years ago

We can't be alone here.

Unscented; it only serves the purpose of not making me sweat or smell bad. And one that doesn't stain.

[–] user224@lemmy.sdf.org 9 points 2 years ago (1 children)

At least I am not the only one. As far as I know, they are widely sold in Japan along subtle scents like "Soap", but I guess that's about it.

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[–] HerbalGamer@sh.itjust.works 27 points 2 years ago (4 children)
[–] kaklerbitmap@lemmy.world 13 points 2 years ago (6 children)

Wolfthorne by Old Spice smells like fruity Sweet Tart candies 💜

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[–] VaultBoyNewVegas@lemmy.world 10 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I hate anything lynx or axe as it's called in the US. In the UK almost every guy uses lynx deodorant, I used to get boxes of the stuff at Xmas from family because they never asked what I'd actually like.

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[–] Binzy_Boi@supermeter.social 26 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Okay, but icebergs go hard as a smell.

[–] euphoric_cat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 2 years ago (2 children)

i dont even know what they smell like can you describe it

[–] Binzy_Boi@supermeter.social 19 points 2 years ago

Think of smelling a glass of ice cubes fresh out of the freezer. Very neutral, but also has a slight "freshwater" scent.

[–] Gork@lemm.ee 21 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I wanna smell like a fighter jet.

Bitches love the smell of avgas.

[–] name_NULL111653@pawb.social 10 points 2 years ago

Oh yeah! They better have a 100LL option for us Skyhawk-flying folk (mostly volunteer search and rescue pilots and students).

[–] Ragdoll_X@lemmy.world 19 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

I always pick the cheapest one, but if the male and female products have the same price I'll pick roses over whatever the fuck "sports" and "fresh" is supposed to smell like.

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[–] RacoonVegetable@reddthat.com 18 points 2 years ago (2 children)

This post is a fake. I have never seen an F16 deodorant.

[–] uriel238@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 2 years ago

Duke Cannon sells Naval Supremacy, which might be F4 Tomcat soap.

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[–] ZILtoid1991@kbin.social 15 points 2 years ago (2 children)
[–] rivvvver@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

i usually go for nutty scents or something sweet and flowery :3

[–] ClaireDeLuna@lemmy.world 8 points 2 years ago

You would like to smell like nutt /s

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[–] VaultBoyNewVegas@lemmy.world 14 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (3 children)

I'd rather smell citrussy or flowery over whatever the fuck the bottom picture is meant to smell like. Plus I like flowers anyway as I've a pair of converse with roses on them. So much better than wearing a pair of Adidas that's white with maybe a stripe of colour.

[–] Kusimulkku@lemm.ee 8 points 2 years ago

citrussy

🍋🥵

[–] name_NULL111653@pawb.social 7 points 2 years ago

Agreed that most of those men's scents are terrible... But as soon as they come out with Jet A and 100LL scents (aviation fuels) I'm in.

[–] barsoap@lemm.ee 6 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

citrussy

...a Citroën with good ole hydropneumatic suspension? Someone with equanimous gait? I can't keep up with all the jargon you folks here throw around.

[–] ThePyroPython@lemmy.world 13 points 2 years ago (1 children)
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[–] Faydaikin@beehaw.org 11 points 2 years ago

I feel like Deodorants and Perfumes for men aren't as much of a choice as it is chosen for us. There's like two main smells, "Old Sweat" and "Motor Oil". Anything other than that is just variations of "Drain Cleaner Citrus".

Like clothes for men, the selection feels so limited.

[–] KingThrillgore@lemmy.ml 11 points 2 years ago

When its all just ambergris, orange oil, and citric acid

[–] galoisghost@aussie.zone 11 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Wait women have passionfruit flavoured deodorant? Damn I’m jealous.

[–] Visstix@lemmy.world 10 points 2 years ago (1 children)
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[–] jabathekek@sopuli.xyz 8 points 2 years ago

I personally prefer blue goo.

[–] HerrNetzwerk@feddit.de 8 points 2 years ago

So i am running around with a scent of coal. Is it natural enough to be a female cent or adventurous enough to male?

[–] Etterra@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago

I only use Sub-orbital Tactical Rocket Shark Extreme™️.

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