Your partner, disguised as another person.
You cheated, except you didn't even actually cheat.
this post was submitted on 05 Sep 2023
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Family member, or close friend is almost always the answer. Doubles the betrayal as it's now from two people.
Her family member or yours?
Your parent(s)
Trump.
A minor
Hopefully you didn't take my recommendation about personal experiences here.
Thankfully I did not
Someone who's already cheating on a partner of their own. The relationship is likely to be a self fulfilling prophecy.
Her friend that's a bonafied sex addict - who she knows has several STDS at any given time. Who she specifically asked me when we first started hanging out (not even the dating part) to not fuck around with.
They'd have a hard time believing it if I cheated on them with my partner. It's so diabolical and unexpected that they'll never convince anybody I cheated on them with themself!