4grams

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[–] 4grams@awful.systems 11 points 6 months ago (5 children)

It ain’t just young people. I’ve got a lot of lefty friends and family who have been lost and are willing to gamble on turnip because they think there is no way to handle things worse than we are now.

[–] 4grams@awful.systems 4 points 6 months ago (1 children)

IMHO, he's hedging his bets. turnip isn't exactly a barr fan so he's calculating that he'll stay off the list after the next election. he knows that nothing he says matters and so is laying the groundwork to keep his head.

[–] 4grams@awful.systems 45 points 6 months ago (2 children)

Right, first thing I thought when I read this is “where can I get some of that ‘cheese’”

[–] 4grams@awful.systems 3 points 6 months ago

Well, I’m grateful for the callout anyway :).

[–] 4grams@awful.systems 3 points 6 months ago (2 children)

Yes, the US. You are right and I should have been more specific. My apologies.

[–] 4grams@awful.systems 3 points 6 months ago

well, I've got other stuff going on, depression and a brain injury last year that I'm still working through. on top of that, as a kid in the 80's I was tested for ADD but at the time they were more looking at the inattentive behaviours. however, I'm pretty sure I'm the other side of that coin and ADHD didn't become a thing (at least mainstream) 'til several years later.

anyway thanks, I really appreciate the advice.

[–] 4grams@awful.systems 5 points 6 months ago

thanks, I do appreciate it. it's a me problem though that I'm working on.

part of it is I suffered a brain injury last year and I'm still unsure if my faculties are fully intact.

[–] 4grams@awful.systems 2 points 6 months ago

I do believe it, more self critical than anything but I'm working on it :)

[–] 4grams@awful.systems 4 points 6 months ago (6 children)

Good advice, thanks. I am not ruling out medication, but I would hesitate to put one of my kids on it if they were diagnosed and so I am hesitant for the same reasons. The reason I’d like a diagnosis though is that I am pathologically unable to act without data. I’d feel like a complete imposter at an ADHD event unless I was sure I was one of the ranks.

[–] 4grams@awful.systems 8 points 6 months ago (9 children)

I honestly don’t want to be medicated, but I’d like a diagnosis to help me find strategies. I’m middle aged so have figured out how to live with the brain I have but it would be nice to not have to struggle against my nature so much.

I’m probably just lazy or easily distracted, or disorganized, etc. and am looking for excuses.

[–] 4grams@awful.systems 47 points 6 months ago (19 children)

I wish I could figure out if I have it. I asked my doctor how to get diagnosed, he said I’d need to talk to a psychiatrist. I got a referral and tried to setup and appointment but they said I couldn’t be tested since I have no history of it. They instead want to put me on antidepressants but I’ve gone through enough of them to know that ain’t what my issue is.

Mental health care in this country is a fucking joke.

[–] 4grams@awful.systems 3 points 6 months ago

She takes full responsibility but in her defense, the meds she was on really did a number on her, especially as a single mom.

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