Biapathy

joined 1 year ago
[–] Biapathy@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 2 weeks ago

I'd love to see them at least! Jealous you're so far away from me then - I've got a similar skin tone and watercolor/ pastels look the best on me.

[–] Biapathy@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Anytime πŸ’œ I love the color palette you've got going on for what I can see!

[–] Biapathy@lemmynsfw.com 9 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

I'm going to just be honest - very extremely rarely will the person on the other side of a gloryhole be a cis woman if you're not setting up a prearranged meeting(that you're likely to be paying for). I know you say you're fine with same-sex or non-cis interactions, but I just want to make sure your expectations are set correctly.

If you're only interested in watching potential interactions you can probably check out your local adult bookstore(sex shop) and see if they have viewing booths set up in the back as they are the most likely to have booths with double-sided gloryholes.

Aside from your local bookstore you can try checking out holehunter.com to see if there's anything more discreet locally. There can also be private/personal gloryholes advertised on classified sites like Doublelist or cruising apps like Sniffies.

I don't know much about dogging, but swingers clubs may fill that more social and voyeuristic void for you as well. There's usually at least one in any given city, but you're unlikely to get in without a partner.

[–] Biapathy@lemmynsfw.com 6 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

Always! That doesn't even register as a legitimate question to me.

[–] Biapathy@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 2 weeks ago

Yeah, you've got to wire them under your shirt to wear them right? You're lucky you've got some stupendous boobs to hold everything in place though!

[–] Biapathy@lemmynsfw.com 5 points 2 weeks ago

You've received quite a few thoughtful and well constructed responses already so I don't know that I feel the need to add in my two cents for the first part of the question, but I will at least try to add some context for the second part.

Like a lot of places on the internet that involve sex, the ratio of men to women is extraordinarily uneven. I've seen numerous women delete their accounts because of the amount of attention they've received after posting(in a similar vein deleting content is not easy due to the way federation works). The community of men posting content(aside from just genitalia shots) tends to not receive very much attention and a small number of dedicated users drive most of the interaction.

Even this thread alone has received more responses than the vast majority of all threads on the instance. I don't mean this in a confrontational manner, but as someone who has been around since this instances inception I guarantee that if this same topic was not posted by an objectively attractive women it would be lucky to only have received a quarter of the attention it has. I will concede though that this is in no small part due to your genuine and thoughtful responses.

A lot of topics also need a large population of users to survive in a general space. To use one of your examples, to find a satisfactory partner for a niche RP topic will likely not be successful. If people don't find what they're looking for, they will stop looking. This critical mass of users is just not here yet, if it ever will be.

The community on Lemmy overall is also very techy and chronically online(even worse than Reddit) - a crowd that is not typically associated with high levels of charisma and rhetoric or social skills in general. The overall Lemmy community is also small enough that basically every post reach the Reddit equivalent of "all" or "hot" for those that have NSFW enabled and in general people have not been as nice and as open-minded as a sex positive space requires. The mods do good work, but they are only human.

Things have gotten better over the past year, but it's not quite there yet. I would like to say that I appreciate you Beth and the wonderful discussion you've provoked ☺️

[–] Biapathy@lemmynsfw.com 4 points 1 month ago

And with you, for even more orgasms!

[–] Biapathy@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Is this insinuating that her esophagus is an enclosed cavity o.O Where does the food go?

[–] Biapathy@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 1 month ago

I'm looking at a lot more than this foxes bush πŸ˜‡

[–] Biapathy@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 1 month ago

That going to be tough to find then unless a specific dom(me) content creator suits your famcy. Almost all of the gay content I've seen around here is pretty vanilla.

[–] Biapathy@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

It doesn't look like the dildo is attached to the mask based on her grip. I think it's just a suction cup dildo.

[–] Biapathy@lemmynsfw.com 5 points 1 month ago

As others have pointed out, other than Yiffit.net for furry content and Lemmyf.uk there isn't much else. There are probably still a few NSFW islands on Lemmy.world left, but most stopped being active. Personally I'd be interested in a kink focused instance if it existed.

It's interesting to see this question be asked a second time this week at the same time we get a huge influx of Only fans spammers showing up though.

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