BreathingUnderWater

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[–] BreathingUnderWater@lemmy.ca 8 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

That sound awful to go through, I'm sorry you experienced that. I feel like I wouldn't be able to get back on a bike after having major incident like that. Kudos to you for getting back into it. I live in a bike phobic city where people will openly harass you throwing stuff at you like drinks and shout at you if you are riding a bike in the designated bike lane. And there's been I think 3 - 5 deaths in the last month alone here since it's too expensive to own a car so there's more cyclists now. North America needs to work on its car centric problem

[–] BreathingUnderWater@lemmy.ca 1 points 2 weeks ago

Who would’ve thought? Just like everywhere else, I guess .. (Humans are terrible)

[–] BreathingUnderWater@lemmy.ca 1 points 2 weeks ago

Yeah sorry if I got a bit heated in my response. Maybe I misunderstood your point.

[–] BreathingUnderWater@lemmy.ca 1 points 2 weeks ago

Okay, I can really understand what you are trying to say. I feel like there needs to be a different or new word for this kind of experience maybe? Because choosing to abstain from a food group or what have you doesn't make your minority in the sense most of us think of, even if it's technically correct. And we don't want to minimize what true minorities go through when our food choices in this case our truly our own choice. But it is definitely a different experience when someone finds out you choose not to eat the type of food they do. They take it so personally you are not eating meat. I actually had the same issues when I was doing Atkins ages ago, which is mostly protein based. People questioning my food choices because it wasn't what they they eat and they took it as a personal judgement against them.

[–] BreathingUnderWater@lemmy.ca 2 points 2 weeks ago

Who are you? I've seen your post history (now) since you mentioned mine. Interesting. I'm not trolling, I'm a genuine person. It honestly feels like you were the one who is trolling. Sorry you were so offended. Hope you have a better life sometime.

[–] BreathingUnderWater@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 month ago

I remember our high school history teacher beginning our lesson on WWII. A few days into the lesson (explaining the Holocaust and such) We thought we all knew about it already. Then she asked us how many Jewish refugees Canada as a country took in?

We made guesses. A million, one hundred thousand? Canada is a welcoming multicultural country afterall, as we've been taught, so we must have taken a lot!

And then she said Canada took less than a couple thousand Jewish people in. That was quite a shock. The room was silent when she said it. She explained the anti Jewish sentiments of the time. We didn't want them because they weren't Christian. It was so strange to us at the time. Why wouldn't we take them? They needed help. Definitely a strong teaching moment, I've remembered it to this day.

Looked it up and this is the official number I guess: Between 1933 and 1948, less than 5,000 Jewish refugees were allowed into Canada - the smallest number of any Allied nation.

Pitiful.

[–] BreathingUnderWater@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 month ago

Can we really blame people for being upset about human beings taking shits and urinating in their spaces? We find it offensive when dog owners don't clean up after their pets, imagine seeing giant human shits and smelling piss stained walls when you go out your door... I can understand people not being sympathetic anymore to others willing to violate their space like that.

[–] BreathingUnderWater@lemmy.ca 23 points 1 month ago

Jeez this completely changes everything. I went from thinking what a waste of police and court house resources to 100% agreeing with the victim's decision to call the police.

The woman who has been harassing the man and his family saying she would only ever say "Hi" to him, and he would ignore her, as though that's some sort of crime. Gives me "men catcalling women in the street and then getting pissed when the women ignore them" vibes.

That guy doesn't owe her entitled ass a Hello or Hi. Especially if he and his family have been continually harassed. But even then if someone doesn't want to respond to you that's their right.

He should be able to mow his damn lawn without some dickhead neighbour staring him down and making him uncomfortable. It's like she was intentionally trying to provoke him into a reaction.

[–] BreathingUnderWater@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 month ago (2 children)

People of all races love pumpkin spice lattes, what are you talking about? It's not a white person only thing

[–] BreathingUnderWater@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 month ago

This is wonderful

[–] BreathingUnderWater@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Getting bullied is not the same as being a "MINORITY". White kids who are not minorities in North America but get bullied all the time in school. Not eating flesh of a mammal or fish etc doesn't mean you are a "minority". Like I said, I've experienced life as a veggie. Is it annoying? The stupid questions, the comments people make? Yes. But I've never had a cop pull me over and worry about whether I'll die that day because I don't eat beef. Or worry, walking down the street, alone at night as a single woman, if I'll be assaulted because I don't eat chicken. Non-meat-eaters aren't minorities in the sense that they are discriminated against in the idea that the word "minority" conjures up. They deal with, at most, someone tricking them into eating meat. Which I've had done. It felt violating and offensive but wasn't any sort of level as someone who is an actual "minority" in our continent.

[–] BreathingUnderWater@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 month ago

That is very true. I've shown some of my friends from smaller towns that image you shared me. They have a hard time believing Ottawa is that huge, it's nice having a visual to prove it.

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