Dohnuthut

joined 2 years ago
[–] Dohnuthut@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

I changed jobs about a month ago, but never felt like my previous boss actually cared about my spouse having cancer (always said she could relate because her 70 something year old mother had a different type of stage 4). New job, people have said they can relate and understand, but have absolutely made it about me and how I'm doing, not how they're doing.

[–] Dohnuthut@lemmy.world 10 points 2 months ago (5 children)

This would absolutely be my husband if he opened a container like that. Scooped a hole in the middle of the brownies I made a few weeks ago.

[–] Dohnuthut@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Awww, my two favorite animals together!

[–] Dohnuthut@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago

We had been mulling over the idea of leaving, but then my husband was diagnosed with Stage 4 cancer in Nov. He says he's now tainted, but if it gets too bad our son and I can leave; it's just a sad future no matter how I spin it at this point.

[–] Dohnuthut@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago

I'm able to utilize Lidl as well thankfully.

[–] Dohnuthut@lemmy.world 5 points 5 months ago

My husband was recently diagnosed with cancer and people in several support groups I follow are now no longer able to participate in trials. These are people whose last hope was a trial; it is absolutely going to kill people.

[–] Dohnuthut@lemmy.world 2 points 5 months ago

This is exactly what I think whenever I see him doing it

[–] Dohnuthut@lemmy.world 3 points 5 months ago (2 children)

My father uses a knife and fork to cut off the crust, eat in pieces, and then continues to use the knife and fork. It is so embarrassing whenever we're out.

[–] Dohnuthut@lemmy.world 6 points 5 months ago

Had baby fever for about 2 years before my husband got his and we initially wanted at least 2. Had our son and the fever never returned. I didn't want to have another to appease society and end up with a child that I honestly would have regretted. I'm now happily one and done with an 8 year old. When things aren't going well, I have to remind myself and especially my husband that he's a child.

[–] Dohnuthut@lemmy.world 2 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Gave a Christmas card to my uncle one year with this and had it memorized at one point, thanks for the throwback!

[–] Dohnuthut@lemmy.world 12 points 6 months ago

Every time we watch this, my husband and I agree that doing the holidays with our families feels exactly like this.

[–] Dohnuthut@lemmy.world 7 points 6 months ago

I guess I never thought about it, but my job technically does this once/month as we have an off-site day and it usually involves doing things that normally aren't open to the public.

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