LadyAutumn

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[–] LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 1 month ago (8 children)

I am never getting into a self driving car. I don't understand why we are investing money into this technology when people can already drive cars on their own, and we should be moving towards robust public transportation systems anyway. A waste of time and resources to... what exactly? Stare at your phone for a few extra minutes a day? Work from home and every city having robust electric transit systems is what the future is supposed to be.

[–] LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 1 month ago (5 children)

Are you advocating blissful ignorance as a like. Lifestyle? I'm glad that you have enough money and stability to do that lol if you're poor or marginalized blissful ignorance is not an option if you intend to survive.

[–] LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 23 points 1 month ago (8 children)

Finding a place to legally watch a specific TV show has become very frustrating. Been through this with several shows. I no longer use any streaming services but it can be nearly impossible to find some shows, particularly ones that were released pre-streaming era.

[–] LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 month ago

Hm. You should bring a lot of comfortable clothes. I honestly kinda wish I had cut my hair before surgery, cause you end up spending a lot of time fairly low energy and in bed. My hair ended up getting super tangled as a result. If youre diligent you could braid it frequently or just get someone else to brush it, but I had like 3 foot long hair so I was not capable of managing it on my own lol. Bring hand and lip cream, hospital/clinic air can be super dry. Bring some stuff to keep you occupied ofc, game consoles or books or shows. The clinic i went to had us all in dorms so I brought headphones to be polite to everyone else staying at the time.

Before hand, I mean for me it was winding off of smoking (almost 2 years since i quit) and trying to get into a healthier eating routine. Cutting back on caffeine and stocking up on low effort meal supplies. Trying to keep calm. Things go very fast once youre there but the build up can be nerve wracking.

After hand, while youre in the hospital they will be instructing you on every little thing. They won't force you to walk, or at least my clinic only forced me to do it on day 1. But I kept walking every day, usually twice a day for 15 minutes each. Its good to keep yourself moving but also not overdo it.

Once you're back home do not try to get back into your normal routine. You are off your feet and your are in recovery and you will need help. Crucial that during the first 2 months you spend as much putting minimal strain on your body. You'll sleep a lot. Get a in bed laptop/meal tray. It will come in handy, or at least it did for me. Download a timers app on your phone early on for timing dilation, pain killers, walks, etc. The first few months feel like forever at first but it goes pretty fast. When you get first home though yeah you really want to rest as much as possible, get lots of fluids and focus on adhering to the routine your surgeon tells you to do.

[–] LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

He protected them from every form of intervention. Without a supportive American government they would not have even had the weapons to do it themselves.

[–] LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone -4 points 1 month ago (3 children)

He lived a good life. He saw the zionist project he supported all his life come to full fruition. He just wanted to win the presidency to have had 2 terms, not out of any semblance of anti-fascism or concern for minorities. He just wanted it for the sake of personal achievement.

He will go down in history as the president who failed to do literally anything to stop fascism. He will be remembered for the hundreds of murdered reporters, 10s of thousands of murdered doctors/paramedics/nurses, and the hundreds of thousands of bombs dropped on children in Gaza. His name will be forever connected with the Israeli colonist project and it's genocidal aims. He, more than anyone else, is why the genocide was able to happen in the first place. He gave them the guns, he gave them the money, he gave them the missiles and war machines and tanks and planes. He protected them from the UN, he protected them from international prosecution, he spread their hoaxes and propaganda on the international stage in front of audiences of millions of people.

I'll shed no tears when he dies. Dying of cancer is merciful compared with what Israel does to Palestinians. Deaths he has long fought to justify. Good riddance.

[–] LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I'm glad you have had good experiences. It sucks how like hit or miss it is in that way. I've had very understanding and cooperative doctors and I've had doctors who are clearly doing everything they can to deny me care. My partner recently finished the process of getting an autism diagnosis, for example, and that process took them a year and a half of being shown the door and fighting to get another appointment.

If really goes well above and beyond just trans care. But I was gatekept for 7 years from getting reassignment surgery. I live in Canada, healthcare is public here, but the wait list for new doctors where I live is about a decade. So I was entirely dependent on 1 specific healthcare professional to provide the care I needed, just one person I had to convince and I didn't have any other options. Can't tell you how frustrating it is to run into a wall continously like that. If you have money you can just bypass that process, but if you don't depending on where you live you're stuck with whatever you get.

[–] LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 1 month ago (5 children)

The healthcare system in North America actively works against us in every possible way. You are your only advocate. If you dont speak up for yourself your needs will fall on deaf ears.

[–] LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 14 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Yeah I just about had a meltdown trying to disable all the AI collection that Samsung phones come with nowadays. Phones are more like data harvesting engines than devices of utility. It's gotten so much worse over the past 5 years. I mean it was never good but it's making the internet nearly unusable if you want any kind of privacy.

[–] LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 1 month ago

From one neurodivergent woman to another, be aware that ableism exists everywhere. Finding other neuroqueer people was the first time in my life I really felt like I belonged somewhere.

I'm also a lesbian. It did take me a long time to come around to that though. Had less to do with my body and more with my confusion surrounding the way men affirming me made me feel. Straight men finding me desirable validated my identity. I confused the euphoria of that validation with attraction. I transitioned almost a decade ago and do not see a male body though, so not exactly what I think you're referring to.

[–] LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

He's honestly probably just hoping to get insider info on a rug pull meme coin. Doesn't make sense from any other angle.

[–] LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 21 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

We need to up the ante on anti-ICE tactics. Every single ICE agent should be doxxed. The details on every single ICE facility should be archived and shared. If you're going to be a member of the gestapo you should never have peace. Your whole life should be miserable. Anyone who can smash a 16 year old girls face into pavement deserves to have their name, their face, their address, and all their information be public knowledge. They have access to all the information on girls like her, its time we had all the information on men like him. That shouldn't be a controversial opinion.

There should be riots over this. American indifference to genocide is seemingly boundless. Even as it happens on their doorsteps.

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