[-] Metacortechs@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago

He can object because he's decided that's what is right. Literally nothing else matters.

The piece of shit that used to own my company is like this. His decision is correct and gospel, and if you don't agree or if it's provably false you are wrong. And it's your fault you are wrong, because he has decided it to be correct.

[-] Metacortechs@lemmy.world 4 points 5 months ago

Me too, but don't worry! The drug company will get theirs from me for the next few months!

Fuck this broken healthcare system.

[-] Metacortechs@lemmy.world 4 points 5 months ago

Thank you, I really appreciate it. There's a LOT left out of the abusive conditions I lived in leading up to that, I was forced to sleep on the floor for a couple of years, forced to physically abuse myself for her amusement once I was well and truly broken. She used my kid as a pawn to manipulate and control me and it worked. She used my size to intimidate other people to get what she wanted. Burned down our home.

Cut me off from all of my friends and family.

I'm doing a LOT better these days, it's been a few years now. Through therapy and giving myself space I uncovered memories of being sexually abused by a priest in my youth, which surely didn't help, and the legal ramifications of that are still turning as we speak.

I'm still a broken human, but I'm a much better version of myself than I was a few years ago. I struggle, and fight the constant feeling that I should cease to exist, but as long as my kid needs me I have a thread holding me down.

I have the most amazing partner now, who has shown me what it is really like to be loved beyond being a parent. Something I never experienced until the last couple of years.

I'm writing a letter to my kid, that I will give her when they are much much older, outlining what those years were like. I know they can see the evil in their mom, but can't name it yet. I haven't said a word about it to them, and have no plans to until much much later or until they start to ask me about based on their observations.

I had intended to just say thank you, but .. it feels good to let it out. Very very few people who know me have heard that much of the story. Thank you for hearing me. I truly appreciate it.

[-] Metacortechs@lemmy.world 5 points 7 months ago

Something to be aware of, some devices will straight ignore your DNS settings in DHCP if they can't get to their ads. My iPhone 13 did that. I had to block port 53 udp/tcp for everything but the piholes.

I'm sure eventually we're going to see DNS over https doing the same and I'm 100% ready to mitm all devices that pull that bullshit..

[-] Metacortechs@lemmy.world 8 points 7 months ago

Jesus...

I could totally see my idiot dog doing this.

[-] Metacortechs@lemmy.world 6 points 7 months ago

That really warms my heart to hear. I'm trying to be one of the good dads.

Just today my 9 year old and I had a conversation about how I'm always the first to step up and admit when I make a mistake, and communicate what I did or will do to fix it, where I have colleagues who will try to hide their mistakes and front like they never ever make them. Going so far as lying to clients, bosses, and coworkers all the way.

[-] Metacortechs@lemmy.world 6 points 7 months ago

Clutch pedal as well, so you have 2x as many switches to go bad and strand you if you don't know how to bypass.

[-] Metacortechs@lemmy.world 5 points 8 months ago

I call mine a robot dick, thank you very much.

[-] Metacortechs@lemmy.world 3 points 8 months ago

If I can play tradewars again, without having to worry about one of my friends calling to knock me off so they can get in, I'm in.

[-] Metacortechs@lemmy.world 4 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

Don't think so, I have a 9 year old who turns 10 in February in the 4th grade in the US. They've never been held back, started at the right time etc. That puts us 8 years from graduation, at 18.

edit: I'm tired and didn't read your comment correctly. You are right. We'll start 6th grade at 11. Leaving so everyone can point and laugh. Sorry!

[-] Metacortechs@lemmy.world 8 points 9 months ago

Thank you for typing this so I didn't have to.

[-] Metacortechs@lemmy.world 4 points 9 months ago

No question about that, and I find it equally irritating.

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