Mindless_Enigma

That's great that they help your friend like that! As someone that doesn't face any kind of accessibility issues myself, it's easy to overlook those kinds of benefits that these devices can provide. In situations like your friend's, I'd agree that any potential security cons are outweighed by the pros (especially if the alternative before was having to leave the doors unlocked anyways).

Agree on the convenience of voice assistants. I've got various models of Google homes in my house that I use for voice controls on anything I don't have a good way to truly automate. Different people will have different tolerances for how okay they are with the data things like that can gather. One day I might try to set up one of the local network voice assistants but those can take a lot of work to get just right. Always a tradeoff of convenience and privacy.

As others have said, you can sequester IoT devices to a VLAN that has no internet access. Most of the common devices (lights, switches, sensors) added to smart homes work perfectly fine without access to the internet. Voice assistants are the biggest security/privacy hole since all commercial options are from big tech companies and phone home constantly. If you set up a local homeassistant instance you can get a ton of functionality out of smart devices with no direct connection to the internet. You need to decide how you handle accessing homeassistant from outside your home if that's something you want but there are plenty of options to choose from for that.

One thing I will say that I refuse to add to my home is any kind of smart locks. No matter how much I trust my security setup, I don't trust it with the ability to unlock my doors. If there was one that could only lock them electronically but required being manually unlocked, them maybe. But I haven't seen a lock like that out there.

Personally I don't know if Lemmy needs these to be successful. Depending on your viewpoint, Lemmy already is successful. Lemmy instances existed long before the current Reddit influx and seemed to be doing okay even if things were a bit slow.

Maybe I'm wrong about this, but it feels to me like most people coming over from Reddit are viewing federation as multiple people helping run parts of a larger single site instead of viewing each Lemmy instance as its own entire community and site with the great benefit of federation allowing direct access and communication to other sites running in the fediverse. Identities and communities are specific to an instance because that instance is an independent community. In that frame of mind, having a different account on different instances and overlapping community topics between instances makes sense. Same way multiple forums have boards about the same topic and joining multiple forums meant multiple accounts. Federation just makes it easier to see across that gap.

The cynic in me says they didn't actually fuck up. The AI being horny brought more attention to it and playing it off like "oh no! it went rogue!" gives them even more headlines. All a strategic play.

I don't really like the logic of "chatbots like this will help cure loneliness." It might help someone feel less lonely at first. But then it'll be a crutch and, if anything, hurt people's ability to socialize with other real people. Like it's a quick dopamine hit that will slowly dig you deeper into the hole you feel you're in.

If downvotes had been used as originally intended, they would be perfectly fine. But the cultural shift over time on the site from "downvote things not adding to the conversation" to "downvote what I don't agree with" made their existence more toxic to conversations. Weighing down unpopular opinions in the sort feed made it even easier for echo chambers to build up. Having a way to give comments that are productive a bump is enough for effectively sorting things.

I can see comments and posts on their profile from communities I'm not in. Not quite sure why that isn't the case for you. Maybe a weird quirk of how the different instances are federated. Looks like they're talking about !fountainpens@sopuli.xyz. As for finding communities, I don't know what the UI is like outside of Beehaw, but when I go to the community list I can chose to search all instances to find communities all over.

Things are good! Workload got lightened a lot so I have time to catch up of stuff around the house and work on some projects I've had on hold. The weather's also getting to the point I like here. I live for rainy afternoons.

It's neat to see them using ActivityPub, but I'm really wary of anything created under the Meta/Facebook umbrella. We'll have to wait and see if they decide to act in good faith with this which my biases make me doubtful they will.

Also, if they're using ActivityPub, why would I have to join if I can just loop in with my existing Mastodon account?