TarantulaFudge

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[–] TarantulaFudge@startrek.website 30 points 8 months ago (2 children)

I feel like the wide and often free availability of narcan and improved quality of safer drugs like weed are making a difference.

I'm sorry that you had a rough time. It's okay to feel jealousy and it can be a great tool of change when you are feeling unfairly treated. Sometimes it's really hard to walk away. I spent six months in therapy trying to work up the courage one time. Going forward, you'll be able to make more informed decisions about what is right for you.

There are a lot of ways to do polyamory. It takes two to define a relationship together. I'm a big fan of RA and ethical polyamory. With the right communication, everyone can get what they want and be a primary partner. I go out of my way to make sure I'm meeting the needs of the people I love.

I imagine you could cut as many corners as you like but eventually somebody is gonna want pineapple lol

I usually try to date outside the polycule but I can't keep up with everybody and it is really funny when this happens. It can be truly small world sometimes.

Sorry to revive old thread, but there's people here who want to talk and wanted you to know that. I'm sorry your first experience with polyamory was not a good one (or maybe it is now idk).

+1 for decentralized or federalized services gonna plug matrix here I've used it for 5 years avoid using matrix.org homeserver

I added whisper and have never looked back. Sometimes it's not exactly right but it's usually obvious and funny 🤣

I've been really enjoying prodigy and wow season 2 really kicked it up a notch! Loving all the Janeway action. Lots of good Voyager characters too.

[–] TarantulaFudge@startrek.website 17 points 9 months ago (3 children)

There's no way a judge is gonna allow this. Outrageous. The language is way out of scope.

[–] TarantulaFudge@startrek.website 4 points 10 months ago

It doesn't matter if it is a business entity operating under a government then you can never really know because gag orders. Centralized servers can be blocked. Telegram and Signal apps could have a back door. This is why open stack is important. And not just the code. Also encryption is default for p2p one on one conversations. It's not in channels by default because it can complicate public use.

[–] TarantulaFudge@startrek.website 2 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Yeah the main thing is that the ports and addresses can change and it's nbd. From a firewall perspective, it's impossible to block them all. Especially when the clients are doing mundane https requests. Even if the server goes down or partial connectivity, the channel can still be used.

[–] TarantulaFudge@startrek.website 9 points 10 months ago

It cannot be easily blocked especially if you use your own homeserver every homeserver replicates the channel and it can operate without the original server! That's why signal and telegram are inherently flawed.

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