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[–] agertudici@lemmy.ml 26 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

This is it 500%.

They needed to give people something to fight about.

I'm not even sure if I'm trans and I'm already prepping to fight people for my own existence because I know somebody somewhere needs to make my body evil so other people stop asking why they take all the money.

Fighting the moral existence of me and my body are just the next excuse for why you should give somebody who already has more money than God even more power and control (usually in the way of money).

Gotta fight me. How dare I not want to have the tits or uterus that grew on me. And to stop me from doing that you just have to give this other dude more money and more legislative control. You just have to stop asking for fair wages or safe working environments. Give this rando the power to tell you you're a stupid poor who deserves to toil in pain and misery and he'll save you from the fact that I just kinda personally don't like having tiddies.

And the absolute bestest way to tell people I'm evil? Tell them I'll tell their kids their bodies aren't evil. Because that's the truth. If some kid asks me if it's ok that they don't wanna have tits I'll tell them that's fine. And the ONLY thing worse than my body being evil is me telling your kid it's ok for their body to be evil too.

It doesn't matter that I'll tell them to experiment with non-permanent things first and get their head on straight before they decide their body ain't right. It doesn't matter that I'll ask them to examine their viewpoints on what gender even means before they make that decision. Hell I'd even tell a kid to make sure they're not mistaking fat-shame for gender dysphoria. I would literally tell them to evaluate any other option before permanent body modification.

But the people telling girls they aren't skinny enough but also their tits aren't big enough and boys they aren't skinny enough but also their muscles aren't big enough are totally NOT the problem here.

[–] agertudici@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

No its more like. I'm not gonna let capitalism lie to me about whether or not I need five different flavors of cinnamon toast crunch (one of which will specifically target my interests / demographics!) to feel fulfilled.

That's been going on way since the boomers and at least formally since the ww2 generation.

Telling you that you need all of these #options plus an #attractive celebrity to identify with and tell you which flavor to like is waaay older than anyone still alive now.

[–] agertudici@lemmy.ml 8 points 2 years ago (4 children)

Well. There are some jobs that like. Aren't actually real. Instagram influencers for instance. You don't need somebody wiggling their ass or abs at you and telling you their favorite cereal flavor if the goal is just to sell decent cereal instead of inventing a bunch of wierdass subflavors based on marvel characters to try and get people to buy shit they don't actually need for way too much money.

[–] agertudici@lemmy.ml 11 points 2 years ago

Utopia has always been a process, never a destination. You will never be able to elect humans that will act in your interests forever. You must stay alert and aware of the happenings around you and constantly advocate for yourself and those who can't.

[–] agertudici@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Sign language.

Before I was a psychiatric nurse I sat a lot of 1:1 suicide watch, but also a lot with people who were very sick and had a lot of tubes in various preexisting and created orifices. All of those tubes can be very uncomfortable, and even if the person logically knows they will recover and need the tubes to do that, they have to be constantly reminded to leave them alone. LOTS of people rip out their own urine catheters and even breathing tubes, and the anchor bulbs can make a very bloody mess on their way out.

When communicating with such people I often wished we both knew sign language fully, but I did know some basics I would teach to patients over the course of a shift. I highly recommend everyone knows

  • water/drink
  • toilet (PLUS piss/shit since they might help you differently for either one)
  • pain/hurt
  • food/eat
  • vomit/puke

These'll take you thirty minutes to learn today and if you're strung up in an ICU someday it might make hell an inch less hellish. Communication boards where you point to the letter can help a whole lot, but when you gotta shit you gotta shit!

[–] agertudici@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Crossposted w/credit! to c/popmemes. C/popmemes is designed as an intermediary to acclimate outsiders to lemmy's meme culture. Thank you for providing this fabulous specimen!

 
 
 
 

The symbol of healers is NOT the Caduceus (two snakes around a staff). The Caduceus is a symbol of mercantile, both honest merchants and thieves. The true symbol of healers is the Rod of Asclepius, the single-snake you see in our community icon.

I consider this a massively important (although symbolic) statement to make in an era of privatized, for-profit medical care.

"The Caduceus is a symbol of Hermes or Mercury in Greek and Roman mythology. Caduceus symbol is identified with thieves, merchants, and messengers, and Mercury is said to be a patron of thieves and outlaws, not a desirable protector of physicians."

"The modern use of staff of Aesculapius started when The American Medical Association had the staff of Aesculapius as its symbol in 1910. The Royal Army Medical Corp, French Military Service, and other medical organizations had done the same. Even today the World Health Organization, Medical Council of India symbols have the staff of Aesculapius in them."

"In 1990, a survey was done in the US and it was found that 62% of the professional associations used the Rod of Aesculapius while 37% used the Caduceus and 76% of commercial organizations used the Caduceus."

 
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submitted 3 years ago* (last edited 3 years ago) by agertudici@lemmy.ml to c/puzzles@lemmy.ml
 

I know the issue is with the starred row, but I can't figure out how to reconcile it!

UPDATE: I tried a nonocross solver that told me there's no solution. If you add one-more-one to the starred row, there is a solution that aligns with a sensible visual pattern. So my understanding is that this puzzle just has a typo. Thank you for reading though!

 
 

(This was part of a three-part series I wrote on how I got through nursing school with ADHD)

When trying to study and pay attention with ADHD it helps to understand optimal stimulation theory. Here’s an article to read if you want the nitty gritty, but I’m gonna break it down the way I understand it. This is the idea that ADHD is actually a disorder of an under-stimulation, and that you have to increase stimulation to increase attention. It has to be just enough though, as too much stimulation also reduces attention. The problem is research into the specifics has gotten mixed and inconclusive results. The best advice is again, for each person to do what helps them.

So put on some educational videos at home and try a bunch of different things out. Whatever helps you pay attention to the speaker most is what you should do. Here's some things I've tried and how I choose the right activity for various situations. It should give you somewhere to start.

Basically I split my brain and senses into four parts that all need to be occupied. These are my eyes, my hands, my ears, and the ability to think/process itself. Different tasks need different parts, so the best complementary task varies. Tasks also tend to be less stimulating as they're repeated, so sometimes the effect will wear off and I have to try something new.

Lecture

So lecture uses the processing of course, and it uses the ears, but it uses the eyes less often and barely uses the hands at all. So I need something that will occupy my hands and occupy my eyes but that I can look up from as needed. Here's some examples:

  • Knitting or crocheting
  • Adult coloring books
  • Doodling simple, repetitive shapes like little circles, squares, spirals, or wavy lines. I can’t draw complex objects or shapes and still pay attention, just simple repetitive ones.
  • Fidget spinners & cubes - They don't occupy your eyes in the same way but they do occupy your hands.
  • Handheld puzzles like rubiks cubes
  • Jewelry - a lot of people use beaded necklaces/rosaries just to occupy their hands. I've also seen spinner rings and necklaces with the time turner from harry potter.
  • A lot of people download the outline or powerpoint ahead of time when and take notes on top. That never worked well for me personally but again, figure it out for you.
  • Some simple phone games/apps but only very specific ones. You want something with
    • a lot of color and shapes
    • no reading or complex problem solving
    • mindlessly easy & repetitive
    • untimed, like I said, so you can look up
    • little or no sound/can be muted so both you and your classmates are not disturbed
  • Here's some great examples (I'd love some recommendations from apple users): 2048 - Water sort - Ball paint - Art Blitz - Tangle Master - Sort N fill

Rules for fidgeting

  • Respect your classmates’ right to learn. Fidget quietly and, wherever possible, out of sight (this is less of an issue with virtual lectures, but keep it in mind).
  • Be honest with yourself about what works for you. The most effective fidget usually isn't one that feels fun (in fact that often indicates the fidget is too stimulating). It should be just stimulating enough to make work easier to pay attention to.
  • An important part of teaching is verifying that students are hearing and understanding. This is why open communication is so important. Talk to your instructors about what you need and what you paying attention looks like. Fidgeting with a phone is convenient, but more traditional teachers might understand doodling better. I talked about effectiveness and whether or not fighting them on this is worth it in a previous post.
  • If these things help you it will show. If you still answer questions and work on assignments, most instructors understand.
  • If you’re going to fidget in lab & clinical, the biggest concern is being sanitary. Knitting (as an example) can’t be sanitized properly. I also had the instructor reviewing my accommodations tell me fidgeting would not be accommodated in the lab/clinical setting. In practice this just meant I was responsible for making sure my fidgeting was not disruptive and in fact barely noticeable.
    • Bad Lab Fidgets
      • Knitting - not sanitary
      • Fidget jewelry - not sanitary, ligature/choking risk
      • Fidget spinners and cubes - borderline. Easier to sanitize, but has to be done quietly under table/in pocket
    • Good Lab Fidgets
      • Doodling - but depending on what else is on the paper, be prepared to shred it at the end of the day
      • Small hard plastic pocket fidgets

The Reverse, Reading the Book & Doing Homework

So what if you need your eyes and your hands like if you're reading or working on an assignment? Well you do the reverse and occupy your ears!

  • I recommend music without lyrics. I like electronic dance music, but you can find instrumental music in almost any genre.
  • A lot of people listen to video game music because it was kinda designed to aid attention.
  • You could also listen to white noise. Lots of white noise generators have options like a coffee shop with people talking in another language in the background.
  • Experiment a little and see what works best. If you need to read something music or white noise occupies your ears but you might also need to fidget with your hands (see above).
  • Part of this is building a pavlovian response in yourself. If you don't have a sound to start with that puts you into "study mode" work on studying to a particular sound until you do (more on this in the next section).

To sum up optimal stimulation, think about what you're doing and what parts of your brain the target task occupies. Then think about what parts tend to distract you and how to occupy them with a small task. Be willing to experiment to find the level and activities that suit you best.

Fun fact: although not directly nursing school related, there are many mindless chores you will still have to do during school. Tasks like laundry or dishes occupy your hands and eyes, but rarely your ability to think deeply. This makes your laundry or dishes a great fidget for studying so you can get two things done at once.

Self Soothe and the Five Senses

So this is actually another DBT concept. I mentioned pavlov and his dogs in the first post and here it is again. The dogs drool when the bell rings because they're used to eating when the bell rings. The only difference between you and those dogs is you get to pick what you want to be trained to do when the bell rings. Find something to be your bell, and train yourself so to go into study mode when it rings.

Your attention or relaxation or whatever other conditioning you want can be trained to respond to any of your five classic senses. For best results, use multiple or even all five at once. Here's some examples of things you can use (copied from another, similar post of mine):

  • Sight - Curtains open to daylight or full spectrum white light lamps are abt $50 on Amazon if you live somewhere with little sunlight like the NW US or near the Arctic circle. You may be able to do this with some of those fancy new color changing light bulbs, but I suspect that's more expensive.
  • Sound - upbeat music, white noise recording or generator of a coffee shop (best if any talking is in a language you do not speak)
  • Taste - coffee / tea, chewing gum
  • Smell - a simulating essential oil like citrus, keep the coffee grounds in a cup, scented lotions or lip balms
  • Touch - it may help to do some light exercise like stretching or yoga, but I really recommend putting on real clothes. For instance I have a hard time studying if I'm not wearing a bra.

This is kind of a repeat from the first post but for many people the best thing is not being in the same place where they sleep and watch Netflix while they're trying to study. It's a great strategy, but there are other options as well (and you may need them in this new COVID world). A similar strategy for people who are restricted to their rooms would be to have a desk or chair where they sit during the day and the bed is still reserved for sleeping. You could even curtain off this area or use one of those folding room dividers to create a separate area. You may be able to find these pieces of furniture secondhand for cheap.

Conclusion

I hope this really helps all of you. I put a lot of work into making sure I included everything but that it was still readable. Look in the comments if you wanna read more. Lots of people have been sharing their own experiences and what does and doesn't work for them.

Best of luck in your schooling and careers!

 
 

cross-posted from: https://lemmy.ml/post/184426

A quick summary of the core issues:

HR 1195 Workplace Violence Prevention for Health Care and Social Service Workers Act - violence has been on the rise in Healthcare since even before the pandemic. It's a combination of factors encompassing everything from people who are sick and confused to drug related violence and violence because people just don't like nurses telling them what to do (for instance, no eating before surgery), and many other reasons. Here's a good article on that: https://www.ajmc.com/view/violence-against-healthcare-workers-a-rising-epidemic

HR 3165 Nurse Staffing Standards for Hospital Patient Safety and Quality Care Act of 2021 - ratios are a commonly discussed topic in nursing because a higher ratio of nurses to patients means that we have more time to spend with each individual patient and ensure that they receive adequate attention to assess and treat them. Unfortunately nurses are constantly pressured to take on more and more patients at a time so that the hospital makes as much money as possible. Often these ratios are wildly unsafe and don't allow nurses time to check for and treat basic complications that would otherwise be no problem. That's why there's laws being proposed to limit the amount of patients each nurse can have in various settings. Here's a good article on that: https://www.nationalnursesunited.org/ratios

HR 666 Anti-Racism in Public Health Act of 2021 - race is well-known to have profound and wide reaching effects on health, here's the CDC's article on that: https://www.cdc.gov/healthequity/racism-disparities/index.html

Bring Awareness of the Implications of Pay Caps - recently a huge group of congressional representatives signed a letter proposing to cap the wages of travel nurses. They're trying to spin this as just being about the cut that the travel agencies are getting, but the truth is that the high rates of pay that travel nurses have been getting these past two years had the power to finally make it worthwhile to fairly pay regular staff nurses. Suppressing travel nurse wages is just a move to try and keep nurse wages low across the board. https://www.wwno.org/public-health/2022-02-09/travel-nurse-salaries-are-rising-due-to-demand-some-hospitals-say-its-price-gouging

Support All Frontline Healthcare Workers (MD, NP, RN, LPN, CNA, RT, EMT, & FireFighters) - as nurses we understand we're part of a larger Healthcare team. We're in this together and we can't do it without our fellow Healthcare workers.

 

A quick summary of the core issues:

HR 1195 Workplace Violence Prevention for Health Care and Social Service Workers Act - violence has been on the rise in Healthcare since even before the pandemic. It's a combination of factors encompassing everything from people who are sick and confused to drug related violence and violence because people just don't like nurses telling them what to do (for instance, no eating before surgery), and many other reasons. Here's a good article on that: https://www.ajmc.com/view/violence-against-healthcare-workers-a-rising-epidemic

HR 3165 Nurse Staffing Standards for Hospital Patient Safety and Quality Care Act of 2021 - ratios are a commonly discussed topic in nursing because a higher ratio of nurses to patients means that we have more time to spend with each individual patient and ensure that they receive adequate attention to assess and treat them. Unfortunately nurses are constantly pressured to take on more and more patients at a time so that the hospital makes as much money as possible. Often these ratios are wildly unsafe and don't allow nurses time to check for and treat basic complications that would otherwise be no problem. That's why there's laws being proposed to limit the amount of patients each nurse can have in various settings. Here's a good article on that: https://www.nationalnursesunited.org/ratios

HR 666 Anti-Racism in Public Health Act of 2021 - race is well-known to have profound and wide reaching effects on health, here's the CDC's article on that: https://www.cdc.gov/healthequity/racism-disparities/index.html

Bring Awareness of the Implications of Pay Caps - recently a huge group of congressional representatives signed a letter proposing to cap the wages of travel nurses. They're trying to spin this as just being about the cut that the travel agencies are getting, but the truth is that the high rates of pay that travel nurses have been getting these past two years had the power to finally make it worthwhile to fairly pay regular staff nurses. Suppressing travel nurse wages is just a move to try and keep nurse wages low across the board. https://www.wwno.org/public-health/2022-02-09/travel-nurse-salaries-are-rising-due-to-demand-some-hospitals-say-its-price-gouging

Support All Frontline Healthcare Workers (MD, NP, RN, LPN, CNA, RT, EMT, & FireFighters) - as nurses we understand we're part of a larger Healthcare team. We're in this together and we can't do it without our fellow Healthcare workers.

 

Quick reminder that when they say they're going to replace American workers with foreign ones who are less familiar with US labor laws and willing to accept less pay and less safe conditions, that's called human trafficking.

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