colforge

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[–] colforge@lemm.ee 9 points 8 months ago

I certainly don’t mean to shame you for what seems to be a desire to play the game without being propositioned for sex at all. That seems to me to be a completely different thing than wanting to remove a particular sexuality from the game but leaving others intact.

[–] colforge@lemm.ee 21 points 8 months ago (5 children)

It’s funny how much this comment mirrors the experience of LGBT people left and right. Do you think it’s not awkward for a lesbian to “have to straight up reject” their male “friends” who come on to them? Or gay men and their female “friends”, or asexuals and literally anyone.

[–] colforge@lemm.ee 50 points 9 months ago

If I’m not paid for ALL the time I am required to be on-site and available to my employer (including for security purposes), I’m finding another job asap. Don’t give your time away without being compensated for it.

[–] colforge@lemm.ee 9 points 9 months ago

And I still never saw the way the orange slayed the rake!

[–] colforge@lemm.ee 44 points 9 months ago (5 children)

It’s not even 8:30 AM and the internet has already made me feel old. Brb gotta go take my medication for my back pain and queue up some techno on WinAmp.

[–] colforge@lemm.ee 8 points 11 months ago

Indeed. It doesn’t help that anxiety has multiple causes, some of which overlap and compound each other. I couldn’t have gotten a handle on my anxiety without medication, but in my case I also couldn’t have done it without a great therapist who took the time to get to know me and help me learn the various factors that were contributing to my particular stew of neuroses. Telling me to just breathe or exercise or meditate would not have done shit for me although ironically all of those things are part of my routine now but only after a long road of trial and error and practice.

[–] colforge@lemm.ee 4 points 11 months ago

Yeah here in the good ol (hahahaha) USA most establishments have a separate “restroom” for men and women which consist of a row of sinks for washing up and a number of stalls for toilets (and urinals in men’s rooms of course).

Sometimes the urinals are just in a row on the wall with no dividers between. But there’s usually one or two disabled stalls as well, although they’re not locked in any way.

[–] colforge@lemm.ee 20 points 11 months ago (13 children)

Most of the disabled stalls I’ve encountered (at least in the US) are within the gendered bathrooms. So even if the stall is nominally gender neutral one first has to enter the men’s room or women’s room.

[–] colforge@lemm.ee 5 points 11 months ago

Which is why I also advocate for laws keeping corporations/business out of residential property ownership altogether.

[–] colforge@lemm.ee 14 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Companies would also then be incentivized to invest in and lobby for better affordable housing in the communities their offices are located in/around so that employees at all pay scales have affordable options within a few miles of the office.

[–] colforge@lemm.ee 18 points 11 months ago (3 children)
 

Afghani Kush and Rotten Flower OG purchased at Good Crops in Hugo Oklahoma rolled up in in a Snoop Dog King Size Slim paper with a Blazy Susan crutch. Definitely looking forward to 4:20 this afternoon (ten minutes before the end of my shift but luckily I work from home)!

 
 

These are all tracks I’ve accumulated over years of listening through a psychedelic lens. Much of it is psytrance but there are many other genres represented as well.

 
 

The perfect synthy vaporwave aesthetic for a late night drive

 
 

If you enjoy it, there’s also my Reflections playlist, a set of 20 tracks that I rotate out every couple of weeks, which then get added to my Deeper Reflections playlists:

https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2JZh6Gp31bZs2kp1jUyvsf?si=HjGg7IWeTAOECWSO9FMMUA

 

Love this track so much.

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