haileyscommit

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[–] haileyscommit@kbin.earth 7 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

god I'm in the same damn boat. a week and a half in and I'm already like. fuck I need to get on that. but also ✨ doubts ✨

[–] haileyscommit@kbin.earth 7 points 1 day ago

oh god yes the chiseled jawline... mine reminds me of Chad (the meme character)

thanks for the encouragement 🙏

[–] haileyscommit@kbin.earth 5 points 1 day ago

I'm always cautious when it comes to AI. Like you said it follows a lot of stereotypes and such, and I noticed it messed with my eye shapes in the picture a little bit. It's why I'll never trust the "AI/AR try on" features in clothes shopping, either (also it defeats half the point of trying it on, which is seeing how it feels to wear).

I feel like I could be a lot prettier, or not. It's a complete mystery until it happens...

[–] haileyscommit@kbin.earth 9 points 2 days ago (2 children)

update: I played with it some more and oh my god is it even possible I could be this pretty someday???? I want to post it but then I'd be showing my face 😞

edit: I also don't look like my mom OR my ex this way!!

 

I feel like my facial anatomy is just destined to be masculine... even androgynous is out of reach. I also need to go to a dentist.

While I did this I gave myself this kinda curly wavy hair and a darker hair color and I really like that. But I look like my ex like that... especially with my teeth the way they are....

[–] haileyscommit@kbin.earth 7 points 2 days ago

oh that's exactly what I did... every word of it...

[–] haileyscommit@kbin.earth 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

oh god oh fuck

edit: no disrespect to my mother, just, let me be my own girl god damn it 😭

[–] haileyscommit@kbin.earth 1 points 3 days ago

it's been so long since I've heard skirt go spinny

[–] haileyscommit@kbin.earth 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

trans or not I'm gonna die poor 😎

[–] haileyscommit@kbin.earth 1 points 3 days ago

(the really sucky part now is, I now have three names for myself, the only place I'm currently going by Hailey is here... and I never finished rolling out Hal, so it's kinda breaking my brain that now I want to kinda clean all that up. Domain names, usernames, display names... school is the only IRL place I managed to go by Hal, everyone else knows me by my birthname... I'm holding back on tangenting on the logistics of social name changing & of course coming out.....)

[–] haileyscommit@kbin.earth 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I had actually agonized over a new male name before, and eventually I settled on Hal... and it didn't take long before the idea of a Hailey appeared... I couldn't shake the name so it ended up sticking to an idea of an idealized partner. So when I found out I'm trans, it was only natural to pick Hailey.

Now, there are multiple equally valid (and a few invalid) ways to spell it so that was just kinda vibes

[–] haileyscommit@kbin.earth 1 points 3 days ago

yeah.... I can't really get outside of my house so um having that as an option would be great... (I'm not yet brave enough to look up what it's like to do that in my state)

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