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I live in New York City and have no desire to move to the suburbs or countryside. It's great here.

• I can walk to most of my needs. Several grocery stores, pharmacies, a big park, bars, restaurants. I don't need a car.
• there's a thriving music scene. I can go see live stuff of many genres every night if I want
• a deep dating pool. Lots of people. Lots of queer people too, if that's your jam.
• I like there being people around. The empty streets of the suburbs feel spooky and hostile to me.
• more people means it's easier to get group activities going. Join a soccer team. Brass band. Bird watching group. Knitting community. There's everything. Usually more than one, in case a particular group isn't your vibe.
• stuff is open later.

Some of the things people imagine about cities aren't really true

• it's not constant noise
• I typically can't hear my neighbors
• people don't typically interact with you on the street, but if you need help someone will usually step up
• it's not shoulder to shoulder constantly. People seem to imagine it's always times Square on NYE, but it's just not.

While you're not unseen like you might be in the countryside, no one really cares that they do see you.

Some people want "more space" but I don't really know what for. A one bedroom apartment is fine for me. What would I do with more rooms?

If I had kids, I wouldn't want to put them in the suburban hell cage like I had. Nothing to do. Can't get anywhere on your own. Don't like the few dozen kids in your school? Well that's your whole pool of friendship options. I was always so jealous of the kids I knew that lived in the city. They could just get on the train and go to the beach, or go skating, or go to a punk show, or whatever. I had to beg my parents to drive me anywhere interesting, and usually they didn't want to.

I don't think fucking idiots are evenly distributed, so the odds depend on where you go.

The fact that if you're rich, you stop paying social security tax is insane. I hit it one year and was like why did I get a big bump in my take home? I absolutely did not need the extra cash.

Alternative : we kill you for being anti-social. Get fucked.

Fascists think they're standing up against "liberals" or "moral degenerates" whatever. They think they're the hero.

If they were good at critical thinking and analysis they wouldn't be fascists.

It's kind of annoying and distracting. It makes me think they have some emotional damage (don't we all?) and then I start wondering what else is going to break under stress.

A sincere apology and owning fault is a power move. Apologizing four times because the chair made a weird sound when you adjusted it makes you look sad and impotent.

I've long said that if these gamer duds put their energy into fighting capitalism we'd be better off.

Musk is also a profoundly stupid man with the emotional maturity of an unloved 13 year old boy. He'll do anything to try to fill the void in his heart. Well, anything except be a decent person, I guess.

Does instagram really let the hateposts like the top one fly?

Can we find the person who posted it and beat the shit out of them? I know, I know, I'm just doing internet tough guy right now, but I really am sick of all these hateful assholes making the world worse. They post who they are under their real name! Burn their house down!

What happens to their stuff? I'd guess "it depends". There's no clear heirs or estate with a company, I think.

Corporations, by contrast, cannot go to jail and or be physically executed

Ok so technically we can't physically execute a corporation, but we could get pretty close if we rounded up the board and c-suite.

I kind of hope that will have the bonus effect of making the ownership class ease up on return-to-office. Sure, have your executive meeting in-person. Oh shit, someone flew a drone in and it exploded, shooting nails everywhere and killing half the c-suite? Shit. Anyway. We'll be working from home until at least they clear the blood out of the carpets.

(Though realistically, they'd make workers go in physically while being remote themselves. But maybe someone will bomb their house. No mercy for the ultra-rich.)