lazyneet

Honestly I have trouble getting my two partners to like each other, or even tolerate me for more than a day at a time. If I "allowed" someone to have a 3-way I'd "allow" them to finish wherever and however they want.

Grindr is full of kinky people. It's also full of ad spam and bots. Scruff is a little more dignified but it's mainly for bears, and the more attractive of them sometimes put things like "no fem" on their profiles. The only one I wouldn't recommend is Recon, which is kink-focused, and only because I've never even come close to getting a date through that, though I am in the US.

Apps I haven't tried: I hear Barq is good for furries. Feeld is a kink-focused app but I think it's mostly straight people.

I would. I don't even have a picture of my partner. You've got to keep rolling the dice until you're with someone who's down.

I'm not quite aromantic but I'm pretty much the same with kink. Do I trust someone enough to do this or that to me? Then you may as well do all of it. I can't get pregnant anyways.

I'm not a top and I'm very upfront about safe sex. I don't know why someone would feel unsafe with me but frankly it offends me every time. I'm just describing one side of an interaction, and it's possible that I haven't properly communicated here how those interactions go down.

I've gotten a lot of "talk to you tomorrow" then the next day the convo doesn't exist. I'm guessing it's either bots or humans with unreal short attention spans. The Grindr Turing test requires a face pic in the profile and evidence of a personality.

In my case there is no "first thrust" as it takes a minute to loosen a little. I would characterize it as a mild sharp pain for the first 30 seconds, followed by what feels like an internal massage. If you've never done anal it can feel a bit different (worse) but a lot of the experience is psychological.

I'm sorry for all of these things you feel, some of which I too feel. Maybe you could try counseling (again, assuming that was part of your process for getting HRT). I started HRT about a year ago at 31 and I was socially transitioning for 6 months before that. I don't trouble myself with the metaphysical, but I definitely relate to gender dysphoria and depression.

Regarding trans acceptance, I think the congresswoman's views are maybe a bit too moderate, and civil rights are things to fight for when 1/3 of the country possibly hates us. It took over 100 years after emancipation for African-Americans to gain acceptance without segregation. In the country's history, we have never had a woman in the White House, except for Harris's vice-presidency. Equality takes a strong effort against the current of neo-Nazism and other brands of hatred, and I hope the many decades of trans history (when trans people have been known as such) mean enough to people that a basic level of public acceptance without open hatred can be found in the places we live.

Sent? Unsolicited? Never. Received? Hell yeah, and I was going to say I'm warming up to it, but as I type this I just got a couple of not-so-hot dick pics from a stranger on grindr who is possibly a bot, and the depression is back.

I run koboldcpp on a gaming pc. Currently using a 7b Dolphin model and personas that force it to either be more compliant or roleplay a character. It irks me that even the uncensored models tend to be aligned to be polite, since they are often derived from pre-trained corporate models. I've never had an AI threaten to choke me if I don't be a good little slut, for instance.

With current partner, wildest =/= best. Wildest would have been 3-ways with them and my previous partner. The best was probably the sex current partner and I had when I was way out of my comfort zone, which is normally that of a kinky poly bottom.

I've been boymoding with them ever since they said they needed a bf. (We're both mtf.) One day we were playing a tabletop game with friends for 4 hours, and I was bored and feeling up my partner a bit the whole time. In the car after, they told me they aren't comfortable with much pda. I apologized. We got back to my place and I invited them in. It was a particularly hot day with no ac, and we stripped in about 10 seconds. I don't remember the first few positions, but they were calling me "daddy" and acting extremely subby. They gave me the best blowjob of my life and I came more than I thought it was possible for a tgirl to cum. I lay there in shock for 10 minutes as they licked up the mess they made. Then I tried topping and failed miserably, but the first part was awesome.

One or two rounds and it takes forever