metaldream

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[–] metaldream@sopuli.xyz -1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Choosing to fuck a piece of shit, when you know they're a piece of shit, doesn't make you a victim, and I'm not entertaining this pity party claim that everyone fucking a MAGA asshole is in an abusive relationship. They aren't. But I feel for the ones who are.

Also you're putting words in my mouth. I never said these men were "misunderstood". I explained how they got there in the first place. Their beliefs and actions are clear as day. I do not sympathize with them more than abused women. But you don't want to engage my actual points, you want to set up a straw man and pull your self-righteous, self-pitying manipulative bullshit instead, which is exactly what I knew would happen.

If you dine with a Nazi, you are a Nazi. If you befriend a Nazi, you are a Nazi. If you fuck a Nazi, you are a Nazi.

[–] metaldream@sopuli.xyz 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (3 children)

It's not just about how you're treated by these communities, it's how they work mechanically.

For example, on reddit if you engage with these people, you will not only be deleted and banned from their sub, you will also be auto-banned by a bunch of opposing subs. You get one chance to participate before you need to circumvent the platform by creating a new account.

It's simply not feasible to engage with them online in this way, and that's ignoring the time and emotional energy you need to spend to do it in the first place.

The issue needs to addressed at a societal level. As a society we value all the wrong things in men and few of the right things. A lot of these guys end up in these communities specifically because they feel they can't meet the ludicrous standards created for them, and place the blame solely on women instead of our wider culture.

[–] metaldream@sopuli.xyz 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I've called these assholes out on reddit to in the past. My reward was not only getting banned from their sub, but also getting auto-banned from a bunch of unrelated mainstream and progressive subs.

The idea that we can just go in and win an argument with these clowns is incredibly naive. I get the sense that the author didn't actually try to do this herself. Social media is specifically built to push people into impenetrable bubbles because the algorithms intentionally favor combative tribalism, which drives up engagement.

But social media is only part of the problem. We have bigger issues related to how we think about men, and how we raise boys, that drive them into this mentality in the first place. Toxic masculinity is not new, it's just been spread rapidly by technology.

[–] metaldream@sopuli.xyz 6 points 2 months ago

I played hockey in high school and that was my experience too. Insanely toxic attitudes towards women. Yet we elevate these assholes because at least in the US we still value athletics in men more than anything else.

[–] metaldream@sopuli.xyz 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

We should weaponize bots to do this. With AI it doesn't even need to be real people anymore.

They're using them against us and it's long past time we responded in kind.

[–] metaldream@sopuli.xyz 3 points 2 months ago

Most blue states already have a state guard. But their military capabilities are very limited.

[–] metaldream@sopuli.xyz 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

The conservatives are at 46%.

[–] metaldream@sopuli.xyz 1 points 2 months ago

Leave it to ratfucking Republicans to screw over young people so old millionaires can make more money.

[–] metaldream@sopuli.xyz 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I run it on ultra at 1440p with RT on high and FSR performance upscaling. I get 60 fps consistently with these settings, no drops. I have a 9900X/7900 XT so I imagine you'll be able to get quite a bit more out of it.

[–] metaldream@sopuli.xyz 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I had to tweak quite a bit but it's running at a stable 60 fps at 1440p now. I wouldn't say I'm looking past it, just enjoying it in spite of the performance issues.

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