midimalist

joined 4 months ago
[–] midimalist@lemdro.id 7 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

It would be a clever move from Paradox if they're actually not stopping the development now that EA is cancelling The Sims 5.

[–] midimalist@lemdro.id 10 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Ghosting someone (multiple really) when I just couldn't handle all the things they expect me to do. It's childish and very much my own mistake for not being clear with my boundary and overestimating my mental energy.

Slowly making it up one person to the next.

[–] midimalist@lemdro.id 4 points 2 weeks ago

You just gotta prepare something for their birthday next year. No need for something big, just thoughtful. Add a sincere apology or two and I'm sure they will appreciate it.

I also tend to forget someone's birthday other than my partner and immediate family so I just put them in my calendar. No more accidentally forget about friends' birthday, unless I'm really busy and my ADHD acting up.

[–] midimalist@lemdro.id 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Can I be your friend?

[–] midimalist@lemdro.id 5 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I'm very interested, would like to have family dinner tradition too when/if I start a family. I just don't have any idea how to start. Can you tell me more how does the routine go? Like, who is responsible for what? Do you cook/buy dinner? What are the do's and don'ts while having dinner? How to enforce it while making sure everyone enjoy this routine? What kind of obligations are okay as an excuse to not participate?

I know it's too many questions, just the gist of it is fine.

[–] midimalist@lemdro.id 10 points 2 weeks ago

I guess you're kind enough to do that.

[–] midimalist@lemdro.id 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Do you have any good resource for beginner to learn about this?

[–] midimalist@lemdro.id 5 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

The last time I check it out, it doesn't have public transportation yet, at least for my area/country. Otherwise, I like it better than Google Maps already.

[–] midimalist@lemdro.id 5 points 1 month ago

In general, I mostly focus on pet > plants > bathroom > kitchen > everything else.

[–] midimalist@lemdro.id 11 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (6 children)

Wait, I don't get it. The alternative that the guy propose sounds like a win-win though? What if one of them likes vacuuming twice a week and the other once every month? What's the right way to divide it fairly?

(I'm a woman who vacuum as needed.)

[–] midimalist@lemdro.id 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I know I play video games much less now, but it is not because of the lack of interest, just time and energy.

Always hesitated to start playing when all I can think about are my responsibilities. The one time I tried playing the new Stardew Valley-like game, I Loved it but also not, because it was suddenly 3 AM on Monday 🥲

If I suddenly have 1 million in my bank account, I'm sure I'll find my passion for video games back hah

There are many games that I still can't wait to play and I'm in my mid 30s too. Then again, I care more about story and characters than (fast-paced) gameplay so maybe that's why?

[–] midimalist@lemdro.id 16 points 1 month ago (1 children)

As a leecher with atrocious upload speed. Thank you so much for your service.

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