I agree for the most part, and I left the Catholic Church I grew up in for that and many other reasons.
However, isn't Christ's message supposed to be "you shall love your neighbour as yourself"? When it becomes "hurt your neighbour as much as you can" does it make sense to still call it Christianity?
Since it's been that way basically from the beginning though, maybe well meaning Christian people should just step away and start over.
If you're curly, that means having straws in place of hair