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[–] nerdydaddy@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 6 months ago (2 children)

Fun how? Like patterns and such, or something more like toe socks or thigh highs?

[–] nerdydaddy@lemmynsfw.com 4 points 6 months ago

Good. I have most of that. Just missing the vest.

[–] nerdydaddy@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 6 months ago (2 children)

Just a wizard hat? That could be hot in the right context.

[–] nerdydaddy@lemmynsfw.com 4 points 6 months ago

That's perfectly fine. I didn't assume OP was shitty. I was pointing out the "females" thing because he would get a better response by using words that made women feel more comfortable.

[–] nerdydaddy@lemmynsfw.com 16 points 6 months ago (2 children)

This post was the first to be made. I think the other was made to get a rise out of "snowflakes" or whatever.

The thing is that this post isn't even shitty. The question is both fine and valid, and the OP hasn't done anything terrible either. I just like pointing out things to improve communication.

[–] nerdydaddy@lemmynsfw.com 26 points 6 months ago (2 children)

Additionally, the use of context would have told you that I was pointing out a well known red flag to benefit OPs conversations with women.

And for informational purposes, an article detailing why using "female" as a noun is a problem: https://www.jezebel.com/the-problem-with-calling-women-females-1683808274

[–] nerdydaddy@lemmynsfw.com 25 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I generally find that a gentle reminder helps people who are not a problem, and quickly reveals those that are the problem.

[–] nerdydaddy@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Are they sealed for freshness?

[–] nerdydaddy@lemmynsfw.com 69 points 6 months ago (51 children)

I suggest not referring to women as "females". Many find that to be de-humanizing.

The question itself is fine.

[–] nerdydaddy@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 6 months ago

It's fine. I have a web server. I just didn't want to run a separate server just to run Ghost on Node.

[–] nerdydaddy@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 6 months ago

Oh, I'll definitely be writing the templates by hand. I have a preference for hand written CSS.

[–] nerdydaddy@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 6 months ago (4 children)

Honestly, that's probably the best way to go. I've been meaning to try out a few of those.

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