[-] nugmeister64@lemmy.world 6 points 5 months ago

I'm not sure about you, but the best partner I could ever think of is one that is also your best friend; they are easy to talk to, comfortable to be with, you can joke with them, appreciate the world with them, and generally see them as your best friend, with the layer of also feeling profound physical, emotional, and (possibly) sexual intimacy. You genuinely love each other in the most pure sense of the word and can depend on each other more certainly than anyone else, because you can share anything with them, because they are your closest friend in the world.

However, most of it depends on what you want. Simply think about what you want most in a partner, and then look for that. Are you looking for someone who is also figuring out what to do in their love life? Do you need someone to push you in a direction? You have far more agency in your choices than you think you do.

Perhaps first, you should meditate on what you are looking for before you begin seeking it.

[-] nugmeister64@lemmy.world 9 points 6 months ago

jesse what the fuck are you talking about

[-] nugmeister64@lemmy.world 7 points 6 months ago

The Belgian 80's metal band Ostrogoth.

Their website doesn't exist anymore and the only band-run social media page is on Facebook.

If you're a fan of retro heavy metal, give them a listen! They still tour, though you won't be finding much about it online.

[-] nugmeister64@lemmy.world 10 points 6 months ago

funnily far more true than many might believe

[-] nugmeister64@lemmy.world 2 points 6 months ago

no, most of the people in it literally worked for the government, even the woman that got shot was literally in the air force, but thanks for revealing your barely veiled hubris lol

[-] nugmeister64@lemmy.world 2 points 6 months ago

I would like to make you aware of the fact that it's been proven most of the people in the Jan. 6 insurrection were government employees. I'm sorry simply having a discussion with you makes you feel like you have to defend yourself, but many of your sources and statements are either false or misleading, and clearly it would be a waste of my time conversing with someone that absorbed in their point of view. Good day!

[-] nugmeister64@lemmy.world 3 points 6 months ago

and it's in the tens of thousands now that Joe is in office, do you want to explain that, or will you decide to pin the blame on the politician of the day to be a scapegoat? If you haven't realized, the "hate crimes" aren't being committed by just people who you politically disagree with, and saying they are is just pushing the blame onto others

[-] nugmeister64@lemmy.world 2 points 6 months ago

what else can we do in a country like this with the candidates and party system we have? it would be nice to have real elections and options.

[-] nugmeister64@lemmy.world 23 points 6 months ago

I just want to buy a 90's car without a stupid iPad bolted to the dashboard, an electronically actuated parking brake, or hundreds of worthless, permanently enabled nannies keeping me from doing what I want to with my own car and making repairs hundreds more expensive than they should be.

[-] nugmeister64@lemmy.world 2 points 7 months ago

women, I've never spoken to one in my life and getting over my fear of them

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