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[–] pancake@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago

This is amazing, I think it could even nicely fit a use case in a project of mine. Thanks!

[–] pancake@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Even if you often try to make that person feel understood and empowered to express their views, everyone's needs are different. For example, if they tend to feel inadequate or are self-conscious about their achievements/intelligence/etc., you may need to go the extra mile here.

Try to identify all the positive and negative interactions with them (i.e., those in which they get the impression that they are right versus those in which they don't) and make sure that positive ones greatly outnumber negative ones. If you need, you can try to acknowledge more situations wherein their contribution to a conversation deserves praise, or even simply not point out their mistakes if the question at hand is not critical for you (easiest imo).

[–] pancake@lemmy.ml 6 points 2 years ago (2 children)

When a person says this, sometimes even if they do it in a positive tone, it's usually a way to verbalize more concrete concerns that you should address. For example, they might feel that you are always dismissing their opinions, that you don't listen to them in general, or they would simply like to get support when they express their views in a group so they get some recognition. In any case, they feel like you can do something to help but may not feel comfortable to express it or may not have fully identified it. If that person is important to you, you should be able to see what they want and take action.

[–] pancake@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Hope you're good now. Never had trouble with them, but did with other stuff, so I'm much more careful now. Coffee is tasty too :)

[–] pancake@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I use the same method that used to work for me at university: gulping down the whole thing quickly and then looking for things I might not have understood. With enough coffee/stims, the second part is not necessary lol.

[–] pancake@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Brilliant. That makes a lot of sense, especially the more concrete the goals are. I wish it were easier to achieve, maybe the theoretical frameworks for this will be a reality in a few decades... Your implementation at least seems more plausible.

[–] pancake@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Okay, my answer is pretty removed, but I'd say I'd like a system where decisions are made by submitting automated proofs of their optimality, either absolute or over all submitted proposals in a defined time frame. The conditions of optimality would be pre-defined in a Constitution, and non-provable facts would be accepted or rejected via a decentralized voting system that would keep multiple diff chains and penalize e.g. voting for facts that are later proven false via a submitted proof. The proof system would hold all powers, but would be able to delegate decisions to entities under proven rules, which would come faster but possibly be overriden.

[–] pancake@lemmy.ml 22 points 2 years ago (1 children)

If you use my snippet, I want your game. If you don't agree, then you can't use my snippet. The purpose of the GPL is simply to prevent people who don't share from benefitting from people who do, which I think is pretty fair.

[–] pancake@lemmy.ml 4 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Absolutely. But I don't want to influence anything, just make the OP slightly happier and hopefully have a good read myself.

[–] pancake@lemmy.ml 21 points 2 years ago

The reason some desires are universal is that they are achievable, thus it makes sense that an entity that looks for them exists. And we don't yearn for God, we yearn for happiness, empathy and staying alive, and some of us have created a conceptual entity that gives us an infinite supply of those.

[–] pancake@lemmy.ml 2 points 2 years ago (4 children)

I tend to upvote everything, no matter how much I disagree. I don't trust my own opinions or the authors', all of them are flawed in some way.

[–] pancake@lemmy.ml 1 points 2 years ago

Haha no worries, it's nice to get some tips, thanks! :D

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