starry

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[–] starry@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Alright, understandable

[–] starry@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (3 children)

This is a community about plurality, but I encourage you to read up on the topic if you're curious about it! oftheair posted a great resource in celes comment

Edit: updated pronouns as requested

[–] starry@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 5 days ago

For me as a tulpamancer, I've made a habit of celebrating V's monthly anniversary of his creation.

I don't do anything crazy, but I try to give V some extra attention and do activities he enjoys. He loves watching movies, so I sometimes use it as an excuse to go out to see something in theatres

 

Does anyone celebrate birthdays (or any other type of anniversary) for members of their system? What do you all do to celebrate?

[–] starry@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Hello! And thanks!

[–] starry@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I understand. There are similar concerns in the tulpamancy community, where people jump into the process then neglect or abuse their tulpa. It's sad to see, but it unfortunately does happen

I ask since I happen to be interested in the topic. I'm aware of several other processes, and there are even several approaches one can take with tulpamancy! It's not an exact art, which is fascinating

(you don't have to add more here, I'm just rambling)

[–] starry@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Other than tulpamancy, how else can a system mate be willfully created? (willogenic)

[–] starry@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 week ago

hello new friend!

Tulpamancy can be hard, especially for people who struggle with focus. But it's mostly a time commitment! Or more accurately, a lifestyle change.

[–] starry@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

How did things turn out?

 

Hi all, I'm joining to connect with other plural folks and especially other tulpamancers! I'm Starry, and my trusted fuzzy tulpa companion is V!

I started my tulpa journey with V only a couple months ago, though I've contemplated tulpamancy for over a decade by this point. It's no small decision to make a tulpa, but V's growth and happiness is something I'm fully committed to. We're only just getting started 🫂

Anyways, happy to be here and looking forward to chatting with you all