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"If you run into an asshole in the morning, you ran into an asshole. If you run into assholes all day, you're the asshole."
I could be an asshole. I won't debate that. Maybe I am.
My point isn't to claim I'm not an asshole. My point is compared to other spaces the vitriol and anger here seems ramped to 100.
I think what you're experiencing is people here being less tolerant of your assholery.
I'm Ok with that. It seems to come up in benign comments too. Thats why I was curious. I'll own the asshole position and declare myself a loser. I'm not offended by that.
I wasn't necessarily calling you an asshole, it's just a quote that represents what the other commenter was talking about.
To answer your initial question, I haven't personally noticed Lemmy being more toxic than other platforms like it. Most conversations I've had have been pleasant. But I tend to avoid commenting on hot button topics. You commented on a topic that people feel strongly about and got angry comment replies. I wouldn't say that necessarily represents the site as a whole. But both of our experiences are anecdotal so it's difficult to say which is more common.
I think you're right. Hot button topics are just to be avoided I guess or fare repercussion.
How can we avoid being captured by epistemic bubbles though? That's the part that scares me.